There is a girl at college that I asked out to a date, she said yes, we went out, and had a good time and are planning to go out again. However, I did not realize at the time that she was a good ten years older than me. She is quite an athlete and very young looking, so it came as a total shock to me when she told me she was 28. Which is where the second rub comes in, I am about to turn 18 this summer, but don't bother me with the 'legality' part, I believe in saving myself till marriage, so that is not a major issue here, but as life experience and maturity goes the difference between a 17 and 28 is more profound than say 27 and 38. I really do like her, and I sense there is some connectedness between us. Couple more things, I am a rising sophomore in college, so at that level I feel we are pretty similar, and everyone (including her) confuse me for being at LEAST 2-3 years older than I am, with some even more drastic guesses. So I would appreciate your thoughts...thanksAdvice on dating a girl around 10 years older than me?
Go for it, you like her personallity thats all what matters.Advice on dating a girl around 10 years older than me?
Chances are, and I'm just guessing, she wants you for sex. A 28 year old girl rarely looks for a younger guy for his stimulating conversation skills. Might want to lay it out up front that she's not getting any (although that will suddenly make you ';a challenge'; and she may want you even more).
You may, at some point, want to rethink the whole ';waiting for marriage'; thing. You're a guy after all, not a chick and marriage is the most overrated concept on the planet.
At yours and her age, I would think you two have less in common than you think. Chances are that she has been or is sexually active, and since you do not plan to be, that could be a major problem right there. Does she know your age? Maybe she might have a problem there too. I know I wouldn't have wanted to date someone with that difference in ages and sexual experience.
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