I really really like this girl, and need some good advice, please help.?

She's 13, im 15. She used to be all over me, well people started talkin about it, I kinda rushed her, and just different things happend, and now she seems she dont like me at all. She told her friends she has no feelings for me at all. But she told her mom that she is just scared, and I know her mom wouldnt lie to me. Her mom also said that if I really really like somone else, then i should go for it. But if I really really like her daughter, than i should be patient. I mean we barely barely even talk anymore, whats the deal?








I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??





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But she seems to like me sometimes, like the way she looks at me, or she seems nervous, but other times, it seems like she dont care





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12 hours ago


I mean it is so hard to move on, especially since i dont know for sure, if she has feelings for me or not. I mean i love everything about her. The way she smiles, her eyes, the way she laughs, everything about her is perfect. I feel so strongly toward her, way more than anyone else.





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And it's not like her mom said i dont have a chance. She said if a different girl really grabs my eye, one that I really reall like, then i should go for it. But if No one duz, and I am willing to wait for her daughter then i should contuinue to pursue it.I really really like this girl, and need some good advice, please help.?
if you like her that much then, you should ask her out for coffee. you don't want to say ';a date'; because it will just make you look like you like her. let her decide if it is a date.I really really like this girl, and need some good advice, please help.?
i think you should ask her again. if she liked you before she's always gonna have some type of feeling about you. just be patient like her mom said and ask her when you think the time is right. and try not to be nervous when you ask her.

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OK...if you really like her, then YOU need to tell her, and give her an option, tell her you want to be with her, and if she cares then she will agree, send her some flowers or something simple and just write, ';lets talk'; or '; I miss you'; anything to get her attention - better yet...send her this post..she would love that! Bottom line - give her the choice so that you're not left wondering what could have been if you had just said something!
Women that age are really fickle sorry to say. I would give her time and let her know that I'm interested and that I'm waiting for her but at the same time, I'd keep my eyes open for something new, so if she doesn't come around, I wont feel like I totally wasted my time.
dude don't worry, just talk to her and express those feelings no matter how hard, maybe that way you will also find out her feelings. there is no harm in being curious, what could you lose?
Awww...you're so sweet. If you hurt her, she is going to be wary of you, so if you ask her out again, expect that she will reject you.


Yet if you persist, she might come around. Just don't be to stalkerish. Start as a friend, but be sweet.
well plain in simple get her by her self and look into her eyes in tell her u need to know were this relationship is going and if she even wants to continue dateing you, but before that tell her how u feel about her and things will go from there(meaning you will know where u two are relationship wise from that point),and if she doesnt express herself like u think she shouldve then give her some air and if its meant she will come back,but dont let her see u with any other girls because that will only confuse things(her)!
Just be yourself and start slow. You start the conversation. Give her some time to feel comfortable. And in the mean time, go on about your business and don't worry about it.
Okay, if you really like her like you say you do, be as honest about your feelings to her as you are to her mom. You should be talking to the girl. I know guys tend to want to butter up the mom, but in this case, it's really the girl you should be reassuring.





Get her alone, away from her friends, and tell her how you really feel. Here's the catch; you can't come on too strong. Just tell her that you know things happened and you're not really sure where things went wrong between the two of you bur you're really sorry that it happened. Tell her that things were off to a great start and that if she is willing to give you another chance you promise not to rush things this time. You're willing to move at her pace because you really want the relationship to work.





You can tell her you're fond of or like everything about her, but if she told her mom she's scared (and please, please don't tell her verbatim what your mom said she was worried about to try to reassure her. It'll seem like you were prying and she'll feel smothered from the get go) I would hold off on saying you love everything about her for a while. You're 13 and 15. Just remember not to take things too seriously and she will be so much more comfortable. You have all the time in the world to get serious.





I hope it works out for you, but the best advice I can possibly give you is to take it slow and just enjoy each other's company. You can't force a relationship to work. If you're honest but have realistic expectations you will at least be gaining her friendship and trust back. And that is an excellent place to start...
well talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. tell her that she doesnt have to go out with you but you miss her. if she still likes you she will prolly come baq to u. if not, at least she knows and you got that outa your system.
well hunny me being 13 i know u can't get over someone right away i still am falling for some one for like 7 months he knows and he's even had a gf inbetween and i still haven't let go. i think she prob still likes you. go for her and ask her out!! if she says yes then don't rush her no matter what any one says but her!! if u rush someone at a fragile age like this then she will flip you in a second. and ur an older guy so what girl doesn't like a guy thats a few years older!!! if she says no then ask y and what u can do to have her like you. thankfully for u her mom obviously likes u and has no problem with you. don't mess it up. u hurt her baby and she will not like u and might even ban u from the house or worse her daughter


Good luck xoxo
Listen to me, get her ALONE and tell her how u feel. DONT listen to her immature friends(she's probably not telling them the whole truth), and go for what u want! When u pull her aside by herself, in person, u can read her eyes, her body language, how can she lie to u about how she feels then?! Go STRAIGHT to the source, dont be scared, and end the confusion. Do u want another guy to get her when u coulda had a chance, .............hurry now
Its always when u cant get something that you feel so much for it but when you gotten it, its a diff thingy! ppl of your age probably just a crush too.
#1- Quit talking to her mom! The poor girl probably feels trapped and pressured. She is only thirteen, you are only fifteen, Chill! Leave her alone for a while, but, don't ignore her. If she really likes you, she will come back. And don't go at it so hot and heavy next time.
Your both very young. I think her mothers right you just need to be patient with her. Does she know how much you care about her? Maybe you could just be content with that for now. She is only thirteen. Give her time to grow up a little. Im sorry your so tore up about this.

Facebook advice on impressing a girl.?

i go to an only boys school (no im not gay) but there is a sister skool which our school had a quiz with last week. I was on a table with 4 girls, and i had 2 friends beside me. I got 2 girls' facebook as friends but i want to know how to imprss them.





I tried impressing one with help from other sites but she didnt seem interested in me. Im only 13 and i want to try impressing the other and i need help, i dont know what to say i sent her a message yesterday saying hi and stuff. I got her msn but she doesnt come on alot, the other who isnt interested in me does come on but i am not confident to talking with her because i kno i will bore her.





I hav ha no experience with girls except my relatives, and i get nervous even when i talk to them. I lack ALOT of confidence.





how should i reply and start a long impressive conversation with her, get to know her and that sort. Should I comment on her photos or will i end up being laughed at by her friends.Facebook advice on impressing a girl.?
start a convo like '; hey whats upp ?'; and mention something funny that happened when you met her to start the conversation.


and take a risk comment on a few of her pics but not all of them you'll sound like a stalker or seem desperate. just pick one and say something like ';you look pretty here'; or something but dont go overboard


well GOOD LUCKFacebook advice on impressing a girl.?
crawl out from under your rock

I like a girl in my school any advice?

there this girl i like at school she is really cute i really like her i never talked to her but always thought about it it really want to go out with her any adviceI like a girl in my school any advice?
the best way is to confront her. not your friend, not her friend, not a note...YOU physically step in front of her and open your mouth and TALK. simplest thing: ask her on a date! movies are always the best first date (i recommend comedy, action, or drama. not romance; to awkward). that way you just have to sit and watch, and not worry about what you're wearing and how to answer questions and stuff. good luck hun ;DI like a girl in my school any advice?
get a girl as a friend, she could ask the girl what she thinks of you(:


then you could also, text, facebook or IM her? right.isnt that easier


and i would talk to her before you ask her out.cause if someone


asked me out and i barley knew them i would think that they would


be stalking me so.talk to her, or get someone to talk to her for you
If your a shy person and not used to talking to girls your probably look like a fool. My advice is to practice talking to other girls, or something to get you practice, IF your a shy person. Otherwise, I suggest you try to be friends with her at first. Maybe join a class she's in or something. Be patient. Good luck my friend.
first, i would actually talk to her. Get her to know you, and become friends. that will help her warm up to you. have a good personality so then she may start to like you. But dont be mean to her in front of your friends, and dont be mean to her friends. Girls Hate that. GOOD LUCK!
I have the same problem but with a Boy i like and my friend like him too...


he's in like 2 of my classes i think, but with your sitchuation would suggest just talking to her to get to know her..
i think you should go up t her and start up a little conversation. then tell her how you feel. but you should get to know her first b4 you take it further.





hoped i have helped
theres this guy i like and he knoews and he was sacred to make a move so i just went up and t5laked to him turns out it ws really easy,


go for it


good luck babe
definately talk to her. she could be thinking the same thing about you and just to afraid to approach you. if you really like her, its a worth a shot right?
yeah dude just give her a note or give it to her friend to give to her and say blah blah I like you your gorgeous can i get your number, or facebook even i mean everyone bloody has one these days
greatest advice is to talk to her because otherwise it would be really akward
go up to her

Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 weeks and 4 days hah. i know that's not long, but we only talked in person twice. i really want us to talk more, cuz he's super nice and stuff, and he always says really nice stuff, but im not sure what to do. Is it bad that we dont talk? Like i said its only been about 2 or 3 weeks so it's not like its a really close relationship? He can be shy, and so can i. he talks to other girl more than me tho. is this bad? and how can i fix it i need ideas on what to say or do cuz im shy and we're supposed to hang out tomrrow but i have no idea what to say???Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I think he feels shy around you too. You guys should definitely talk more or else this relationship wouldn't work, I am predicting both of you are still in high school. When you hang out tomorrow, just try to keep things cool and be yourself. You don't want someone to love you for who you aren't. Make him laugh and keep the conversation going, and ask about him and what he likes to do. In the end, just give him a peck on the cheek and wish him goodbye.Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I don't know why this person is your boyfriend if you've only talked in person twice. Maybe you should just try dating for a while before moving into a commited relationship. The only think I can tell you is to be yourself, trust your instincts, and watch his actions because they will speak louder than his words. If a relationship doesn't work, then it just doesn't work and there will be others. Good luck!
Just let him hit it. That will break the ice dear.
yeahh u can hang out and u both dont be posseseive about each other.no its not bad that he talks with other girls and all.
umm, calling someone your boyfriend is just a title. talking to him face to face doesnt really make him your boyfriend
juss make out the whole time...
Uhm, why would you get together if you rarely talk. Couples who do that rarely stay together. Since he talks to more girls other than you, he might not be that faithful, since you have limited time together. Its kinda risky not to talk to him.


One thing i can suggest to you, coz i was in the same situation, is to say hi first. if he just smiles, make a joke or something.(like if he'll ever talk to you or do you have to keep blabbing) then once he starts to loosen up, engage in friendly conversations about each other's day and stuff. If you still can't talk. Something's wrong.
Dont worry just talk like you talk to any of your other friends.





';What did you do today?';





';What do you like about school?';





';Have you always lived in this area?';





';When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?';





';Who is your hero?';





';What's the best thing that happened to you today?';





';What kind of books do you like to read?';





';What are your favorite classes in school?';





';Tell me about your family.';





';Can you cook?';





';Do you like drama?';





';Have you ever done improvisational theater?';





If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?





If you could have any job in the world, what would you do?





Of what are you most proud in your life?





Do you play any musical instruments?





What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?





If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?





What do you do when you want to celebrate something?





Where's the most interesting place you've ever traveled?





Do you like risks, or do you avoid them?





What major risks have you taken in your life?





What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?





What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?





What are the most important aspects of your life?





What's the most embarassing thing you've ever done?





i mean really you can talk about just anything!!!

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I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHEN A GIRL NEEDS TIME?

So me and my girlfriend of 4 yaers had an argument about her upcoming birthday. She misunderstood what i was trying to say and thought that i didnt wanna come down for her birthday if she was to go out and party. What i told her was that i wouldnt wanan go out but instead spend time with her alone and she misunderstood that.





Well this brought up the fact that i never call her back when she hangs up when shes mad at me, but i only do that because i wanna let her cool down before we talk again. She also feels that i only tend to apologize when she starts crying but its not true at all. She gave me the cold shoulder and i dont care attitude for about 5 days until i came down to surprise her for her birthday.





She wasnt extremely happy like she always is when i see her but she wasnt mad that i was there either, but i could tell that the argument was still bugging her. Near the end of the night befor ei left she told me she needed time to clear her mind and really think about what she really wants because she doesnt want a future where there is constant arguing. She said she would call me back when her mind is clear and tell me of her decision. I love her to death and i know she loves me so much as well.





Do you think she can throw away 4 years like that over something i know we both can get trhough and overcome? She left me before and it was my fault but we got back together and were never happeier. I admit that we have been arguing quite more recently but what relationship doesnt have problems right? would a girl really leave their bf for something like this and throw away everything?? I need some advice.





I know shes at the point in her life where she has to think about her future. I know shes thinking if whether she can spend the rest of her life with me and if these arguments will probably arise again. We tend to argue about the smallest things and sometimes the small arguments explode into bigger ones. I also know that she has a ton of stress right now due to her business and that she might have to sell her share due to some complications with her partner and i know our situation isnt helping her at all.








But i also know that we love each other with all of our hearts, weve been through so much, and i feel that something liek this is nothing we cant overcome...





and i also know that all of our good times is soooo much better than the bad..I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHEN A GIRL NEEDS TIME?
Leave her a meesage on her phone. Just shut and do it. She doesn't want to talk to you means almost the opposite. Girls are wierd, I know. Try and help out her business too. I know it sounds crazy, but if she is crazy mad, than doesn't that mean you need to do something crazy to fix it?I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHEN A GIRL NEEDS TIME?
If a relationship didn't have problems, then its not love. Everyone has problems. I'm pretty sure you guys will overcome it. Instead of giving her time, maybe you should call her and tell her to let you talk for a minute or so, so that you can explain everything you basically said here.


Every girl likes an honest guy.. and I'm pretty sure that you guys will realize that the smallest things when you argue shouldn't matter.


If she loves you, she'll call you. Just think of ways you can make the relationship better.. Don't rush things, and next time when she does hang up, call her back. :]


It makes the girl feel important, even if it seems like a small thing.


If you need more advice, just email me or something.





Answer mine please!


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i think you should give her the time and then when she calls back talk to her about what you meant about the b-day thing and then tell her that you will apolgize more often and do the other important stuff too.

PLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?

I met this girl about 3 days ago. There were plenty of seats open, and she chose to sit right behind me. I have a class with her. We talked for a couple minutes before class. Then we talked for a minute after class. NOW, today she sat down beside me, and I said ';Hi _____';, and she smiled big, waved and said hi back to me. After class, I asked her why she chose our certain school to go to. She answered back, and we continued our conversation as we headed out the door into the hallway. I asked her another question, and she laughed (with me) and she was smiling at me. Then I said ';I'll see you later';, her eyes got big and she had a cute and big smile on her face and said ';Okay, I'll see you!';


My intuition is telling me that she probably likes me, but she is REALLY SHY. Is it too early to tell if she likes me? When should I ask her out? Is there a way I can find out if she does like me? BTW, I think she may have a pretty good hint that I like her. Advice pleasePLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?
Ask her to help you with a homework problem after class or on a Saturday. Tell her you need her help! Easy to ask! If she says no it's not like you asked her out or anything.PLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?
she likes you.... trust me
Why don't you just ask her to go for a coke or coffee. Sit and talk and get to know each other. It doesn't have to be on 'like' level yet, just acquaintance. Give it a few weeks and see if everything is going smooth, then simply ask if she would like to go out sometime. If she says yes, ask her when she's free. If she says no, say OK, no problem, and keep doing what you're doing now. But___ let her make the next move, in regard to a date. She may just want friends and do things in a group for awhile. Her folks may have some rules. You never know what's behind a person's actions. Take it slow.
Go for it! I think she really likes you but like you said shes shy and if you don't make the first move she probably won't do anything either!
Ask her out now!
she might be being shy cuz she does like u and all u can do is ask her!! the worst that could happen is she says no!! and not askin and regrettin it for a long time is only goin to make it harder to be around her
I think that she does like you, if she didn't she wouldn't show intereste in you like she is, she would probably ignore you if she didn't. I think you should find out what she likes to do and then ask her out on a date. If she likes you shall say no.You will no the answer
Jump on it Duder...what the hell do you really have to lose.. if she is shy she wont tell anyone about it...
all you need to read is 36 24 36
she probably does like u but dont rush things take it slow but still stay interested
Well... I personally think, that you should spend more time with her, so that then she can be herself. I bet you if she was going to be herself with you, she wouldn't be shy. You just have to accept her for who she is. If you walk around your school together, just talking about random stuff, she will be very happy, that there's someone who likes her, and I'm sure that she likes you too ;]
If you rush things it won't go smoothly so take things slowly it's obvious she wants to be friends so maybe you can try just being that guy friend that every girl appreciates. But try not to be around her alot cause then she won't have a chance to miss you if u understand ';absence makes the heart grow fonder';. Maybe you can ask her if she wants to study together for the class you take together.So for now don't rush things patience is a virtue so have some and anyways it's not like she's going anywhere.


And again don't rush things i know what i'm saying it just messes things up.
yea, she likes you, don't ask her out quite yet, though keep talking to her for a couple more days then ask her if she'd like to go do something like, go out to eat somewhere.
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YES she likes you! If she's sitting next to you now and talking with you then she finds you nice and easy to talk to, and thats always a good thing. I would continue to be friendly with her, then after class is over and your walking together ask her out....i doubt she will say ';no'; if she is continueing to show interest in you. :D
She probably likes you; attempt to get to know her better and then ask her out.
I was once one of those shy girls and met a guy like you in class and I really wanted him to ask me out, he did but I hung onto the car do like he was some kind of a serial killer! If she is as shy as I was its going to take a few dates for her to ease up and get comfortable with you. Try walking her to her classes first they see if you can have lunch at her table next after a couple of weeks and you see that's she's more relaxed around you then try asking her out but for heavens sake if your going to try to make a move on her a simple kiss and leave it at that for a time. I'm pretty sure she knows you've got your eye on her but just take it slow. Good luck.
Well, Im kind of a shy girl so I can tell you. She probably just thinks you're cute or would make a good friend, so she wants to stay by you. Just keep talking to her, sitting by her, walking with her, and she'll finally open up to you. If she keeps showing signs that she likes you, then you make first move, b/c if she's shy, she wont do it. But if she's just looking for someone to talk to, then be that someone and soon it would probably lead to something more.
well maybe you like her but if shes shy maybe shes just talking to you





if yer cute then maybe its YES
i think she does like you but maybe you can ask her friend if she likes someone
Well get to know her at school just a tad more then ask her ro go on a date with you like bowling or putt putting then see how things go from there if it is all good then ask her out.
I say go for it. Ask her to a movie for this coming Sunday or something so it's not too far in advance but it's soon enough to give you both something to look forward to. :) If she's not interested you have the whole weekend to come to terms with that, but if she is (which it sounds like it is) you're off to a good start and come Monday you two will have a whole lot more to talk about. :)





good luck!!
If you think she likes you continuing talking to her. Be her friend then see where it goes from their.

PLEASE HELP, need advice asap about this girl?

I got this girls number one night at a party. i made out with her and felt up on her. anyway, i am unsure if it was just a drunken night thing or what. so i was just too nervous to call because i didnt want to get turned down and feel like a fool, so i texted her. i texted her yesterday and she responded. but today i was going to call, instead i texted her again. she didnt respond. im not giong to call tonight, but should i try and call her sometime, or is it too late for that.PLEASE HELP, need advice asap about this girl?
AWWW,,, ok first thing,,,





DON'T GET DRUNK ITS BAD!!!!








second,, were did u meet her? ,, at the party yes,, but did you see her anywhere before,, or after that?





third,,, call her,,, IF YOU KNOW HER NAME,,





i mean text whatever,, what did she say the first time,, try to tell her,, if she says eww,, and that she was drunk,, THERE ARE ALOT OF FISH IN THE SEA JUST GO FISHING AGAIN!!





jeez,, i know i would feel bad for you,, but yea








hope i helpedPLEASE HELP, need advice asap about this girl?
If you're going to do anything, call.





Girls hate a guy who is too cowardly to call and only texts. Next! The worst that can happen is that she rejects you. So what? It's the same thing if she doesn't respond to any more of your texts and you never hear from her again.





--%26gt; In response to your additional details: NOPE. A girl who values herself is not going to respond if all you keep sending her is texts. Grow some, and CALL.
Allways worth a try, but as far as a text, I think it would be best to call her next time and see how she reacts, nothing to lose and everything to gain.





Hope that is of some help.





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its time to let her come to you, you already did the work and showed her that you were still interested


its all up to her now.


if she doesnt call/text she obviously doesnt want anything to happen between you two
ur right about that if she responded to u the first time. I suggest u call her in a day or two. I'm sure she'll pick up and dude the next time picka better time to make out with sumone ..u know when ur sober.
Give her a call she didn't tell you not to call so give it a try
call her


texting is too impersonal


if she turns yuo down


youlle live. right?
not to be mean but grow some balls man!!! if u cant even call her then u shouldnt deserve her. have some confidence...so she rejects u...oh well there is more girls out there. just call
no give her a call.
Call her and see where it goes to another date or a dump its ok we all get dumped sometimes and you had fun with her one time so be grateful for that :)
just call her


and see where it goes


if ur rejected oh well


that's life and


at least u wont wast ur time with her!
u should call her

Ladies, I need advice on meeting a girl.?

I don't know her AT ALL but I see her around a particular building in college. I have two chances and I want to know which is better for making a move.





1.) When she's always sitting in this little lobby area waiting for class, I could sit beside her and ask her if she knows anything about a particular subject I'm studying because I have a question about the material.





2.) When we're both leaving for the day I could get a little bit ahead of her and hold the door for her and then randomly spark up a conversation with this stranger.





Which would be the better/less creepy strategy?Ladies, I need advice on meeting a girl.?
hmmm. well if it was me I would either think your a freak or your a really sweet guy and your trying to get my attention. It just depends on how you say it and your body language. So just do what ever is comfortable for you so you can feel the best when your approaching her. God Bless!Ladies, I need advice on meeting a girl.?
2


get to know her before you decide you like her
i think #1, cuz #2 might creep her out alittle bit.





Good Luck :)
Do number 1
no. 1 would be better
I honestly think choice #1 would be the best idea, it sounds like your prefect chance! Number 2 isnt bad either, but I think it would be less easier, plus she might walk right straight through the door. You have more of a chance with #1. None of them are creepy though.





Best of Luck!

Help i need advice i like this girl at work and i dont know if i should ask her out?

i work at mcdonalds and so does this girl and girl that i like i am 16 and 6'7 and well i have firted with her and had fun with her and i go to school right across the street from her high school we have fun and you know she play fights with me and hit me on the shoulder but i dont know if i should ask her out she also laugh a little when i like pretned to hit her and she is i think 15 or 16 what should i do.She is black and i am white that doesnt matter to me but i dont know about her what should i do.I dont know if i should ask her out.If i do ask her out and she said no what do you think would happen at work.Help i need advice i like this girl at work and i dont know if i should ask her out?
It is one of the worst relationships possible. Don't date someone you work with, there will be so many problems. If you absolutely want to date her, try to get a transfer to another McD's and then ask her out.Help i need advice i like this girl at work and i dont know if i should ask her out?
if u like her then go for it!!!
Just wanted to let you know that when you go out with people you work with it always interferes with your work even if the relationship ends on good terms. so good luck
If you go out with her then it will fell funny working with her.

How can i get the girl I like to like me back?? Please give me your advice. I like her a lot?

Ok, here is a girl I like. She used to flirt with me once in a while. But at that time I wasn't interested in her.


Anyway now I realized how cute and good personality she has.


I have come to realize I like her.


Now, she definetely lost interest in me but sometimes she waves her hand to me and says Hi. But she has definetely lost interest anyway.


Considering these situations, what do you think I get her to like me back??


I like her a lot.


Thanks in advanceHow can i get the girl I like to like me back?? Please give me your advice. I like her a lot?
tell her how you feel about her... The only way you'll know is just to ask.How can i get the girl I like to like me back?? Please give me your advice. I like her a lot?
okay, we have the exact same opposite of situation. the boy i like liked me before and i wasn't interested in him. now, i like him and i don't know how he feels. i like him for 2 yrs already, and i hope he likes me still, even though it's been 5-6 yrs since we met.





anyway, what i do to get closer to him, which works somehow,is try to know what he likes. sometimes, i know that we have stuff in common. then... i try to show him that we like the same things. i also try to get into what he likes. i send signals as well. of course i won't be the one to ask the guy out, but for your case, why don't you? even just a friendly date, or with friends. i mean, maybe she'll get to know you more and like you again. there's no harm trying.
ummm did she lose interest because


she shifted focus to someone else ?





if not then the chance is there


just reach out and say hello


talk to her


smile with her


wink in passing


make sure she notices you notice her


the same things she was doing


FLIRTING





she will get an idea and hopefully will


think you are still worth the effort





but be bold


ur a man


ask her out


dont leave her wondering if she


is imagining things





wP
When you see her ask her out for dinner or a movie.
talk to her and let her feel that you really like her,be nice to her and know her interest so that she may find you nice and like you too
Add her to your online messenger. Many girls are on just as much as guys, and most enjoy talking to guys more than they do girls. If you're close with one of her friends, ask her, or add one to MSN. Most girls aren't against guys, they'll say yes if you ask them out. Try acting yourself around her. If you have class with her, always let her through the door before yourself. Most girls are smart and pick up that a guy likes them. Try sitting next to her. Aside from being the biggest hint you can drop, it's also a great way to get to know her more.
You should hang out with her. Say hello occasionally, chat with her a couple of times, and gradually build your way up. She'll end up having interest in you, one day or another.
for a hundred times, you have to ask her out and be friendly with her don't be shy. good luck!

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I need some advice about asking this girl out?

Ok, so I really like this girl and I used to talk to her everyday (usually the Hey, whats up deal). 2 years later, I hardly ever see her and when I do, either she or myself are the in a rush. I want to approach her again, but im the shy type. When I talked to her, i felt a sense of confidence. Now I feel that she's out of my league. I can't get her out of my head and wondering what kind of techniques I should try. Ive heard get her number or facebook/myspace/etc. But I feel it's kind of tacky to get to know her on that.





Plus, don't give me any jive like ';Just talk to her!';, Ive been telling myself that for the last 2 years. She is one of the most beautiful girl ive ever met and It's just really hard for me. I'm afraid I will lose her.I need some advice about asking this girl out?
Hey mate. I don't know why you always meet her when she's in a rush, but what I say pretty much wenever I see someone I know (weather they're in a rush or not) is ''so hows life in the fast lane there ...(her name), with a smile... I always say this because it's unique, friendly and almost funny in a strange way because I always say it......anyway it's a good conversation starter for your case because you haven't spoken to her in a while (and she's always in a rush) So ask how she's been and what she's been up to. It should work mate, good luck

I Need Some Advice On Asking A Girl Out?

I Like This One Girl Shes Beautiful/Gorgeous/ Sweet Maybe A Little Out Of My League But You Never Know (I Dont Know If She Even Likes Me) That Comes Into My Work Everyday When She Buys Coffee And Drinks For Herself And For People She Works With. She Comes In My Line All The Time And When I Get A Chance I Strike Up A Conversation With Her. I Also Really Look Forward To When She Comes In. Ive Never Hung Out With Her Or Anything I Only Know Her From Where I Work And From Where She Works....





Ive Been Trying To Work Up The Courage/Nerve To Ask Her Out But Im Afraid Of That Awkwardness If She Says No Or Not Right Now. Im A Little Shy So Its Harder For Me Than Most Other People. Also Id Be Afraid To Talk To Her When She Comes In The Next Couple Of Times. I Also Dont Know Her Status (If Shes Seeing Anyone)....





I Also Know Her Friends That Come In From Her Work Next Door And After I Get Done Ringing Them Up I Usually Say Tell So And So I Said Hi/Hey/Whats Up You Get The Idea. So When Her One Friend Came In After I Got Done Ringing Her Up Before I Could Say It She Said Ill Tell So And So You Said Hi. What Do You Think That Means?





Also I Told Her, The Girl I Like That I Might Come In And Open An Account With Them And When I Got Off I Went Over There And Opened One Up, The Girl I Know Did It For Me And She Said To Me So And So Said (The Girl I LIke) You Might Be Coming In To Open One Up....





So What Do You Think All That Means? Do You Think She Thinks About Me Too Because She Talked About Me At Her Work Or Do You Think She Just Mentioned I Might Be Coming In Becuase A Lot Of The Poeple She Works With Knows Me Too....





Also I Think She Said She Has A Kid So, Im Not Too Sure Because We Were Busy And I Couldnt Really Here Her. I Said Did You See Fast And Furious Yet And She Said Well What I Think She Said Was No I Havnt Had Time I have A Kid/Son....





Now How Should I Ask Her Out?





1) Would You Like To Go Out Some Time?





2) Would You Like To Hang Out Some Time?





3) Would It Be Okay If I Gave You A Call Some Time?





Or Would She Feel More Comfortable If I Asked Her Out For A Group Thing Like Rock And Bowl Or Something Like That?





Im 25 By The Way And I Think She May Be 21 Or 23. Im Not Sure I Have Trouble With Just Telling Someones Age By Looks....





I Need Some Advice Please Help Me....I Need Some Advice On Asking A Girl Out?
I think that you should just work your way up. start a conversation with her at work and just when she has to go do something (or you do) then just ask.. number 1 or 2.. NOT number 3.. and dont act shy. women dont like shy guys. and dont worry about the awkwardness if ever she says no. would you rather survive a few seconds of embarassment or spend the rest of your time wondering what it would be like?, knowing that she probably would say yes anyway..


guys get rejected all the time... and so do girls .. thats just life, and it doesnt mean theres anything wrong with them. the reason why they say no is probably more based on them(like in this case she might not be sure cos of her kid or she might already be seeing someone) rather than the person whos actually asking..


good luck ;)I Need Some Advice On Asking A Girl Out?
If you have no solid impression that she likes you then she probably does not. If you ask her out, she'll say no and you'll feel hurt. Then it's going to be all weird after that.

Does anyone have advice for a dancer(girl) who is having trouble getting 6 pack abs?

Im 18yrs old and have danced since i was 3. during my regular schedule I dance non stop 7 days a week for 3hrs minimum. During class my ab workout consist of normal on the ground crunches, planks, legs in the air head off the ground and lowering legs not touching the ground and rising them, i also do crunches on my side which are supposed to work my obliques, my teacher says. I always feel my abs working and sometimes the next day i have the good hurt feeling in them but ive only seen the slightest outline of my 2 upper abs and nothing else. The worst part of my abs is my pooch area. I also dont see my obliques or feel them. when i wear jeans my sides and pooch area poke out.All my dancer friends have abs and are not afraid to show them off, i cant even walk out with a swimsuit on. PLEASE if anyone can help me.





im also 5'5 and weigh 128 lbs. with a short torso could that be the problem since i have long legs but a short torso?Does anyone have advice for a dancer(girl) who is having trouble getting 6 pack abs?
http://gymjunkez.blogspot.com/ check it out and tell me what you think about it ??Does anyone have advice for a dancer(girl) who is having trouble getting 6 pack abs?
when doing pirouettes, suck in your stomach and crouch. spot harder than normal and turn slower than normal. as a dancer myself, it is all about finding a way to include a workout in a dance routine or practice. sometimes abs are hard to target as a dancer because it's all about your legs and your obliques. suck in your gut harder. it worked for me!
Drink moe six packs.
Sounds to me like you've bought into the myth of spot reduction. Your doing way too many abdominal excercises and too little cardio. If your trying to sculp your abs, you must first burn off that layer of fat that rests ontop of them. There are two ways to do that. First you can start doing more cardio, running is key. The second is by changing your eating habits, which I am no expert in. Once you done this sufficiently, the abdominal excercises will strengthen your abs and make them firmer/stronger. Lastly, you don't want to neglect strength training, building muscle raises the metabolism, which allows for more energy and a higher burn rate of calories. Regularly burn more calaries than you take in and you'll be losing body fat in no time.
Body parts is not the prolem the problem is serisouly the whole difference. You gotta change it up. If you do the same thing all the time your likely to get nowhere.





What you do is abs every other day. Ill give you my basic ab workout and sucess.





25 for reps for al exercices, bicycles, in and outs, supermans, boat oblique v ups(different because crunches on your and your legs go up at the same time and dont touch the floor anymore), then i sit down pick my legs up off the floor and fist my hands together while touch both sides of the floor, then i do scissors(dont touch the floor once your legs are up, then leg lifts, then touch the your butt to the floor with your legs striaght to the cieling and up and down.





Remember variety is the key
seeing as you already do alot of ab work, you probably have good tone under the fat that covers the area


my main suggestion would be to do some cardio


use alot of interval training to help burn the fat off and make your abs look more visible


if you have alot of junk in your diet, make sure to take them out


you can also consider incorporate different ab exercises into your routine, because after a while your muscles get used to doing the same exercises over and over again


get proper nutrition after the workout and you should start seeing some abs:)


look up a video of ab ripper x - its a great workout

I rely need advice on this one... girl and guy help needed!?

Well hi my name is Mike. Well my problem is my current relationship.





I am with a girl that I love to bits and we keep having little arguments but then it goes into a bad thing. I do have a seriouse problem with trust issues and paranoia because of my low self esteem.





We have had a big falling out recently and we just cannot seem to get over that hurdel. I want to but she keeps telling me that she is worried that if we go any further it will destroy her later oin in the relationship, This obviously suggests that she doesnt believe we will last.





I do love her with all my heart but she has said some hurtful things recently and i now have some feelings for another girl. I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and I am so confused that I dont rely know what to do.





I am only 17 so yea i have plenty of time left but she does make me happy, they both do..





Grrr i am so confused.





I am a really good looking 17 year old but just get in love too easy, deep easy. HELP ME!I rely need advice on this one... girl and guy help needed!?
OK well you can't have any relationship without trust your gf (ex?) probably new that but you obviously didn't but I am the same way I barely trust anyone because every time I do I end up hurt (and you say you have low self esteem) but when I finally feel comfortable with a person I start to open up and trust them and trust me (I know its hard) it is the best feeling when your in love with someone who you trust completely (I would know I was in the same situation a while back) so you have to choose your gf or the other girl and which ever one you do choose try trusting them a little bit then a little more and more and then happiness.





Good luck





P.s I believe that the reason you fall into love so easy is because your co-dependent and you need to constantly be with someone.I rely need advice on this one... girl and guy help needed!?
you have to choose one or the other or choose to finish with them both...i'm sure they will easily move on if they got such a good looking guy like you to go out with them...maybe you should do a bit of growing up before you get into another relationship
Hey


I've been in the same situation.





Me and my boyfriend had like a little break from each other.


Had some fun and stuff.


And then we got together again and talked about what happened.


At the end of all that me and him got back together and been much happier since.


x
look you are young and dont have much experience. Develop your self worth and these problems will become less and less. At the moment you are needy that is not love.
your 17 of course your going to like more then 1 girl then again you cant be that in love with this girl if you realy like another i would ease off with the love thing and just date instead and have fun its less complicated
Well, firstly let other people be the judge of your good looks!


At 17 whats the deal. You are too young to be getting too serious about this girl.
well you must be hot.


you should really choose between those girls because its hard but someone will get hurt you choose.
i would just hang out an dhave fun dnt sit around worrying about it.
Rob..?
youre 17 - go have fun, forget love, just dont hurt anyone.
I bet your a Libra.You think your finding in women what you don't see in yourself.You need to read up on boosting your confidence.


When i was younger i was so self confident


because people looked at me a lot because i was good looking and guys didn't really like it.


It worked the other way for me as i was shy with girls.You become happier with yourself as you get older.Just don't have your mind


telling you your in love when you know your not.
Yeah, around 17, most guys do get hung up on self esteem and trust... I sure did, anyway... It can last right into your 20s, then stuff settles down in yer life and you start to appreciate yourself more, and from that grows a cooler you. It can do, anyway.





Personal opinion: never get too deep with someone until you're getting on for mid-20s. The more partners you have, the more you will discover what works for you and how best you can work for other people. People tie themselves into long-term relationships far too young, maybe 'cos they're afraid of never finding anything better... Maybe 'cos they want to feel appreciated by someone... Dunno'. But when you're young, you make a plonker of yourself in many ways, and in a long-term relationship that stuff never gets forgotten, so that essential trust and respect becomes harder to keep.





My point is that until you understand yourself and feel confident in yourself, you'll short-change your partners and yourself in relationships. So have many; practise coping with the rocky stuff; learn what works; and don't be afraid to move on when they get a drag.





Happiness awaits.
maybe stop loving urself and loving whichever 1 u wanna b with, if u love the 1 ur with then go with her n make n effort 2 trust her, if push comes 2 shove,make list of good n bad of both, jus dont 4get more good or bad may follow, goodluck

Guys Im a 14 year old boy.I need some advice on hitting on a girl.?

Girls always hit on me but not girls i like. I just need some advice on hitting on them.Like how should approach her?Stuff like that.Guys Im a 14 year old boy.I need some advice on hitting on a girl.?
hey wade!


okay, I'm a thirteen year old girl and the best way to hit on a girl is to be her friend and hang out with her a lot. make jokes, smile, hang out and make sure she gets to know you. then tell her that she looks pretty and that you wanna go out. before that, make sure she likes you...


good luck :)Guys Im a 14 year old boy.I need some advice on hitting on a girl.?
best thing to do is say hi to her and walk away and leave her hanging, talk to all her mates nd then you can start talking to her but dont seem desperate and always speak to her otherwise she will think your weird, and never tell her you like her untill she tells you cos it will put her off

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just be confident and start talkin to her str8 up. girls dont like insecurity. be yourself. dont be fake. if she shows interest hug and start touching her softly . dont be creepy bout it.
u have a pic,lol,jk. idk
I am a 14 year old girl. What I would want you to do to me is stand up when I enter the room, look at me as I pass by, stare at me when I'm silent, smile at me when our eyes lock, tell me I'm beautiful, wait for me at my locker, compliment me in front of your friends, etc.
Im a girl and i like it when a guy cracks jokes with me, makes me laugh, smile, blush, when you flirt shyish pass notes, give her your number in the note, start by saying do u have a cell?


If you want to be really bold be like really obvious! Like hey can you pick up my pencil or wrap your arms around her playfully! just make sure she likes you by passing notes!
I love dudes that are nice and polite to me =]


ohh and not scared to say something to me
uhm u can go up to her and say hi





u seem really full of yourself if u say that girls are always hitting on you...
just talk to her...
just smile when you see her and make sure you guys stop and talk. while youre talking look her in the eyes and playfully touch her arm every now and then. or you can put your arm around her, or give her a hug, thats always cute! dont be sleazy though, thats a total turn off.
youre 14...who cares about girls...you have the rest of your life to worry about girls....when your 17 or 18 then come back and ask that question...by then you wont feel so insecure
Well I just just punch them in the face





But some people hit differently ask around
maybe the girls u don't like hit on u, because the ones that u do like think that ur ugly. lower ur standards. everything isn't all about looks

I need some advice about asking a girl out?

I really like this girl and I used to talk to her often because i had alot of classes with her at school. Now the year after she has no classes with me i hardly see her but when i do she always stops and talks to me which makes me feel happy. I want to start to get to know her before i want to ask the question. Is there anything that you suggest me to do or how i should do it. I can't get her out of my mind, she is the most friendliest and beautiful girl i have ever met.I need some advice about asking a girl out?
Well first of all you should c if she likes you. and if she does then go ahead. if she doesn't then move on because it could take quite awhile to get her to like you.

art mask

I need peoples advice there is this girl that i like at work please help?

i work at mcdonalds and well there is this girl that i like i am 16 and 6'7 and well i have firted with her and had fun with here and i go to school right across the street from her high school we have fun and you know she play fights with me and hit me on the shoulder but i dont know if i should ask her out she is i think 15 or 16 what should i do.She is black and i am white that doesnt matter to me but i dont know about her what should i do.I need peoples advice there is this girl that i like at work please help?
ASK HER OUT!! what do u have to loose..! Your young whats the worst that can happen? Just ask her if she wants to go somewhere as friends first that will ease the tension, and then later say ok well do u wana go on a date with me sometime...trust me IM A GIRL...it helps to say friends somewhere there...for some wierd reason it relaxes me..lol..i dunnoI need peoples advice there is this girl that i like at work please help?
You need to ask her out. I have a bi racial son and now adays alot of people think different.So if she is play fighting with u then she is flirting.Just ask her if she would like to go see a certain movie you know she likes.Good luck
Just keep talking to her and start hanging out more. Then if you like her still go out with her!
just ask her to hang out with u sometime, see if she wants to hang out after work or anything.
well you might try asking her instead of us, that would be a first step. if she is interested she will let you know, otherwise no harm no foul just go cook some mcnuggets and move on
Go for it dude.
Ask her out. Definitely.

I need some advice asap about this girl... I like her alot too much, SOMEONE HELP!!!?

We have talked on the phone every day/night for the past 3-4 months





but when I told her how I felt.. she told me cause this other guy said that he likes her, she doesn't like hurting or choosing, the drama cause she knows what it feels like to be hurt (she has been single for over a year now and her ex really hurt cuz he broke up with her for another girl and this new guy that told her he likes her, she use to like him but she said stuff like he turned into an ******* and its like he doesn't give up) .. basically she said that wants to cool things down (just end everything between me and this other guy) , I even said to her I know theres something there... Its not that I am not moving to fast or anything,When we talked about she did say she is confused and doesn't know she what wants.





Last night when I was talking to her, she was saying well I am gonna go to bed now, then someone called and she said she would call me back.. she did and I asked her who called..and she didn't want to tell me, and she said '; well it ain't good for us';... and then told me it was the other guy who told her he liked her...








She called me today, after sayin she would call me last night or tomorrow ( she got home at 2am) we were talking and I said '; I should come visit you at work';... she said '; you could , but it would have to be on Sunday when I work in the morning cause it isn't early';... was the an invite to ....yes visit me at work... I believe she does like me but doesn't want to hurt the other guy...takin things slow and waiting almost a month after we hang out a coouple of more times to show her I am fun to be with and then tell her again...





My question is after all this background info, Should I see her on Sunday , Does she like me, She knows that I like her since I told her, could she act different as in hard to get ...








I asked her before if she wanted to try to be more than friends..and she said yes... then when I told her how I felt cause I didn't want to rush her into anything...because this other guy in her words '; won't give up , its annoying'; thats when she told me she is confused and doesn't know what she wants..mixed feelings I think... I feel that I should not give up on this girlI need some advice asap about this girl... I like her alot too much, SOMEONE HELP!!!?
Im going through to same thing man, dont give up! Just wait because she sounds like a great girl and a girl worth waiting for. Just be there for her and try to make her get over this guy's feelings and make him give up.I need some advice asap about this girl... I like her alot too much, SOMEONE HELP!!!?
whipped
Think about it...if this guy is so annoying and he won't give up, she could just ignore him. If she is that annoyed with him, trust me, she would stop talking to him. I'm not sure how you feel about winning a girl over, but, if you are willing to go that route, it means that she is capable of being won over by someone else after she's with you. Just think about it, and if it's worth it, and if she feels 100% complacent in her choice, regardless if it's you or not.
She sounds confused and uncertain. I wouldn't push it any further. Be patient and see if she comes around. She doesn't like the drama and I'm sure you don't want it either

I need some advice about this one girl and if you are a muslim please look at this?

Hey I am a Muslim boy and i really like this one girl in my school. She has a boyfriend who is a senior and is going to the army next year and she is a junior and i am a sophomore. I have really fallen in love with her and i would kill for her and die for her. We do talk to each other, and it is not a little, its alot. A lot of the people in the school think that we are going out. I am in a small school with about 100 kids, so the word spreads fast. I have an older muslim cousin in my school who sees what everyone else sees and he thinks that i like her, He doesnt approve of it and will probably tell my parents if i went out with her. It is against my religion to have a relationship outside of marriage and that is why. I dont know what to do. Should I tell her how i feel because its tearing me apart. Ive liked her since the begining of last years school period. Ive only talked to one person about it and that person is the girl i likes best friend. I really want to tell her how i feel i just dont know if i should tell her because i am a muslim and i dont know if she likes me. About her liking me...well she texts me all the time...the other night she texted me at 3 in the morning saying that she couldnt sleep....i dont know if that is a sign but she also talks to me in school quite a bit. so please help me with this problemI need some advice about this one girl and if you are a muslim please look at this?
Relegion should never get in the way of something important like love. Relegion is a trivial subject so don't let it ever hold you back. You could go for the secret romance, or just do it and see what happens.I need some advice about this one girl and if you are a muslim please look at this?
Follow your heart but make sure she likes you man seriously
talk to her
ask her out.
You seem like a nice guy. but remember that shes taken. and if u make this move while shes single it will look a lot more respectful on your part rather than you just approaching her while shes with this other guy. You should wait till he leaves atleast, and then show this girl that you're really there for her.


and sure ur muslim. and ur religion forbids u to have relationships outside of marriage. but its your life isnt it? your intentions are innocent arent they? sure ur parents will be pissed but remember allah knows that u ment good so whats the use in u torturing urself like that?





good luck
Do not ask her out i am a Muslim Allah said it is haram to date muslim woman and o also date but if you go out with her she must be a muslim and belive in Allah you know he said DON';T or he will punish you but think about it just say let's be friends because it's against my religion wait you can date her its not haram just its haram for a woman to date a christain but a man can date a christain but she must agree if she marrys you then she has to let her kids be muslim P.S. dont tell her that she must have her babys to be muslim untill you get MAY married!
although you are strictly muslim





at least tell her that you care for her alot (i hope you do)


and see if she wants to just be friends





but it's kinda jacked up to steal her away from the guy joiing the army don't you think?





i say wait a little


and with your muslim religion crap!!!


what will your parents really do?????





they will say no?? when you found the love of you life?


if their answer is still no then they are arrogant and stubborn.





religion and social life mixing in does suck don't it





well hope you handle it well and not make her your enemy since you did something stupid

Need a some advice please with this girl?

So saturday she kept looking at me at times, and ofcourse i looked back, and before you know it she asked my name etc. But my friend was there n she complimented about how nice his hair looked. im just wondering did she just use me as a link to get to my friend or ? I just added her on Facebook, and hopefully i can get to know cos she seems nice.Also any tips how i can start talking with her since it might be the first proper time ill be talking with her? Ill meet her on saturday bt wanted to chat over facebook get to know each other a bitNeed a some advice please with this girl?
ask her where she likes to go or what she 's always wanted to do and if you can do it for her-you just might win her over. Girls-women like to be complimented-it shows us that you guys notice and thats rare.


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If your interested in this girl,let her know.Need a some advice please with this girl?
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I really need advice on gettin this girl, help!?

U see back in yr 8 i started liking a girl who every lad is after, but my friends had to broadcast it cus there so spitefull, now i asked her out str8 she said 'no, i want us to be friends.' so i respected wat she wanted, after say 12months i started feeling even more 4 her i was a yung idiot and was mivering her tryin 2 court her hopin she wud feel something bak in the end i got over her but it was 2 l8 i got accused of stalking (which i didnt) and she hated me but now 8 months l8r ive noticed a change in her were always havin a laugh shes takin the mickey outta my music shes findin me funnier and ive noticed her looking at me once or twice im startin 2 like her again and im not sure if i can go thru it again wat if i scare her away again we have a yr of skewl left i dont wana leave it 2 l8 an cud she possibly like me now its been a long timeI really need advice on gettin this girl, help!?
You two DO NOT have good history! i know its been a while but you dont want to scare her off again, particularly because she has accused you of stalking her in the past! surely if you liked her this much and you two get along well you will see each other after school finishes? i would leave it a bit and look for any signs that she likes you - ok, she's having a laugh with you - i do that with a lot of guys, it doesnt mean i fancy them all! look for her flicking her hair, laughing A LOT, and looking deep into your eyes etc





I am saying this because i really dont think you and this girls friendship/relationship will survive another attempt from you at taking things further and her rejecting you again - it will upset you and may make her feel very uncomfortable around you. you said you have a year - show her how amazing you are! if you're friends with a similar group of people arrange a group thing, such as the cinema, or just going to the park or whatever - spend time with her, but dont get too intense. when you REALLY know her, you'll be able to tell if she has feelings for you





good luck!I really need advice on gettin this girl, help!?
she might. however, it's best to let her make the first move this time, just so that you don't freak her out. this may sound mean, but in this case it's best not to get your hope up :(
just wait a few weeks and see how she asks if she hints that she is starting to like you then if she isnt acting like she hates you or sumthin ask her out
jus leave her alone... u dont want a reputation of a stalker 2 be wit u wit da rest of ur life, right??? bad puppy! stay away!lol
yea ask her out but before you do make she she has feeling for u 1st
i wouldnt push it to far if she thought you were stalking her before deffinetly do not take that path again... i would try just being friends for a while and see if it builds into a relationship... dont try to push her into one again though cause that may push her away just try having a normal friendship with her with out reading into it to much.. if she likes you wait for her to make the move or tell you... but dont scare her off cause it sounds like you would rather have her as a friend than nothing at all right

Need advice for asking a girl out on a date!!!!?

Ok so here's the background:


I am 20 years old, decently attractive and very succesful for my age.(if it even matters). Ok the girl i would like to ask out on a date works at the same place my sister in law and mom work at. She added me to facebook and we chatted and stuff on there and i finally met her face to face the other day when i stopped by the office. This girl is gorgeous! She is really bubbly and goofy and fun from what everyone has been telling me.





My problem is that this girl is so beautiful that it is intimidating to me. She is only 18 but very mature.





How should i go about asking her out on a date?Need advice for asking a girl out on a date!!!!?
balls...grow some...then ask her for coffeeNeed advice for asking a girl out on a date!!!!?
i wouldn't ask her out after just one meeting. maybe go back a few times, and keep the convo up on facebook, then ask her out to coffee, or somewhere that relates to a common interest, oh and definitely don't act like she intimidates you, most girls don't like that.


by the way, the difference in your age is absolutely nothing, the only difference is that you can drink in canada now, and she can only drink in mexico and europe, haha.
Well 1st off It doesn't matter if Your 20 %26amp;%26amp; She's 18. She's not a minor anymore therefore its not Considered illegal. Next Well If you really like her, Go up 2 her %26amp;%26amp; Tell her how you feel. But the only advice I could really give u on this one is to just be Yourself [: Kuz you'll regret being something that ur not later in life x





Good luck ! x]

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I need some advice on wether this girl is possibly into me or not, i dont know whats my next move..?

Well as weak as this will sound i met this girl on a online ';dating'; site i guess, but not really, its kind of a myspace ripoffm but anyway! lol. We messaged back and forth for like a week, nothing really personal, just like, where u goto school, what are u in to, etc.. then she asked if i had a myspace or facebook. She added me on facebook, whats my next play? does it sound like she could be interested or not? i dont really know what my next move is, cuz like i said we really havent talked that much, i would feel wierd messagin her outta no where... p.s. shes realllly hot haha.I need some advice on wether this girl is possibly into me or not, i dont know whats my next move..?
Well, she added you on Facebook, so obviously she wants you bad.





Post pics, plz.I need some advice on wether this girl is possibly into me or not, i dont know whats my next move..?
hmm sweetheart never ever trust an online dating.if she added you in her facebook. whats the big deal?she just added you in her facebook not in her heart! she thinks you are quite decent thats why she added you.now you have to maintain that trust (trust me)i know what girls feels.dont worry just maintain your friendship then one day just tell her you like her and wait for her response.i am sure it will work out fine.trust me.all the best.
i've used dating sites before and really there is no way to know unless you meet her! invite her out to a public place and see where it goes! If you don't message her i'm sure she'll assume you've lost interest

I Need some advice about asking a girl out?

Ok, so I really like this girl and I used to talk to her everyday (usually the Hey, whats up deal). 2 years later, I hardly ever see her and when I do, either she or myself are the in a rush. I want to approach her again, but im the shy type. When I talked to her, i felt a sense of confidence. Now I feel that she's out of my league. I can't get her out of my head and wondering what kind of techniques I should try. Ive heard get her number or facebook/myspace/etc. But I feel it's kind of tacky to get to know her on that.





Plus, don't give me any jive like ';Just talk to her!';, Ive been telling myself that for the last 2 years. She is one of the most beautiful girl ive ever met and It's just really hard for me. I'm afraid I will lose her.I Need some advice about asking a girl out?
Practice in front of a mirror. Be indifferent towards her (don't treat her like she's the queen of England), flirt with her, touch her, make her laugh, be sarcastic with her, never answer her questions directly unless the answer is no (for some reason girls go crazy for this). Oh and a really good one; tell her she smells really good when she's close to you (whisper it in her ear). You'll get her man, hang in there!

I need some advice about getting this girl i like to go out with me?

We are both high school seniors and Ive never dated before. I've always been just friends with girls but theres one i want to go out with. We don't normally talk in school but we have known each for years, always been in the same school. I had a party on saturday and she came with my friend and his girl friend. We were team mates in beer pong and we were getting along. I like her. We talked to each other during the party and were both having a good time. Im having another party on wednesday and im almost positive shees coming with my friend and his girlfriend again. I want to make a good impression and ask her out. Im going to talk to her at school tomorrow to make sure shees going and to see if she did have a good time at the first party.





Anyone got any tips? She is a nice girl who is above my league. Im a rather nervous guy when it comes to dating, which is probably why i have never dated before. Appearance wise, she is above my league. Im more heavy set and she is kinda small. We were hitting it off well at my party and just really need some adviceI need some advice about getting this girl i like to go out with me?
Just approach her like how you talked to her during the party. Just be natural and be yourself. Most likely that would work. ^-^

I NEED TO SPEND A NIGHT WITH A LOVELY GIRL IN AUSTRIA TOMMOROW...ANY ADVICE?

Bring a razor and shaving cream.I NEED TO SPEND A NIGHT WITH A LOVELY GIRL IN AUSTRIA TOMMOROW...ANY ADVICE?
Damn you, take a hike.I NEED TO SPEND A NIGHT WITH A LOVELY GIRL IN AUSTRIA TOMMOROW...ANY ADVICE?
Hooker is the only guaranteed way you can do it.
bring your wallet and tip well
Yes, I need to spend a night with a lovely girl, too! lol





Yeah, take plenty of baths, stay clean, and keep your breath fresh..hehe
the firat thing u need to do is go shopping get the best suit u can find then get a pair of shoes next go to a barber shop and get ur hair cut then go to a store and get a neclace for her make it a pretty one then go home and take a bath and freshin up comb ur hair put collonge on shine ur shoes get her neclace reddy and then go to a resturant make it fancy tell the people that work ther to get u a table for to and have candles on the table lite tell them that ur going to go pick up ur date and u will be right back go and pick her up at her house take her to dinner when u get sitted give her the neclace dont do anything stuped for the rest of the night talk to her dont be nervise its going to be all right when ur all threw pay for the bill and drive her home walk her up to her doorstep and maybe just maybe shell give u a good niht kiss so dont mess up on this date cause if u do it will be ur last so dont be nervose ull do great.
Bring HUGE flowers...NOT ROSES


...and don't try to match her drink for drink.





machs gut und viel spass!
LOL
... don't go ... it could lead to dancing ...
Just hope for the best and act cool. Let her see that you really like her and care for her.
Hmm, well... if you're not already in Austria, you should go there. If you're there, it's a start.





That's all I got.
No sweat from my experinece in Europe. Ladies are very cultured. Just be yourself. And make sure you've got some rubber.
If she is your lovely girl you may do so but if she is not your girl lover its not fair cuz you are causing pains to others,so take care my friend on those girls are like scorpions sting

I need one technical advice, my mobile number chased by my girl friend's father what can i escape this problem?

Buy a new sim %26amp; make sure the girl knows what her father is doing.





Unless she is too young?





Other wise it is truly just between you %26amp; the girl, as long as you are a good man- it will be ok, if yr a player though, he's going to whip yr butt!





So he should too! Too many men, use girls %26amp; upset them. Don't be like thatI need one technical advice, my mobile number chased by my girl friend's father what can i escape this problem?
Dear Ammu,





Get one more Sim card for the exclusive use of both of you.


You can also get her a separate handset for that separate Sim.I need one technical advice, my mobile number chased by my girl friend's father what can i escape this problem?
Change the Mobile Number.

Ladies, I need some advice for impressing and dating a girl.?

Number one rule: BE YOURSELF!! Women (most) can see right through a person trying to be something else. If any girl can't accept you for who you are then they're not worth dating. Be yourself, honest, and respectful. Hint: chivalry is not dead and it goes a LONG way. Good luck!Ladies, I need some advice for impressing and dating a girl.?
we are never impressed.Ladies, I need some advice for impressing and dating a girl.?
dont listen to candy. her bf just dumped her. but just be yourself.
Be yourself and have confidence in yourself. Most girls like a guy that's funny, confidence, down to earth and well groomed.
take her to a fancy place that she cant afford and then buy her somthing nice or go out to a place like an indian restaurant or a seafood place or something. then suprise her with a nice gift

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There is this girl i like, and i asked her to homecoming and i need some advice.?

we have been best friends for about 8 or so years. i asked her about a week ago, and she still hasen't giving me an answer yet. and then she tells me that she has hockey that night but will see if the other goalie can play. any advice answer i should expect?There is this girl i like, and i asked her to homecoming and i need some advice.?
Ask someone else. If she hasn't committed by now you need to move on.There is this girl i like, and i asked her to homecoming and i need some advice.?
Have a talk with her. Even though you will be intiially nervous, SO IS SHE! Don't worry if you screw up or say the wrong thing, just enjoy yourself and have fun. The reason that she's blanking you is that she either likes you or is trying to find a way to let you down gently. Hope that helped Dude.
Find a girl that wants to go with you, without a doubt. You'll have more fun with someone like that, and this current female could bail on u, last minute.
Geez man, cut her some slack! ;)


shes just worried about letting her team or YOU down.. she obviously wouldnt want to do either and i seriously think that you're waay more important than one hockey game.


dont sweat it.

Need romantic advice from every guy and girl...old or young?

We always joke about playing some strip poker or something like that and we want to wait for sex but i would like to do something fun for both of us that involves getting a little closer if you know what i mean...not expecting a BJ or anything like that just something amusing...i already give her massages and that sort of thing and she loves em but i just figured there might be other stuff to do. Thanks for your answers!!!Need romantic advice from every guy and girl...old or young?
i find anytime the 'mood' is set (candles, rose petals... etc.) its a mojor turn on. also, MUSIC%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; is awesome for setting moods... stripteases are way fun, and sexy for both partners. and if all else fails... making out is the BEST! (just make sure you have fresh breath! :-)Need romantic advice from every guy and girl...old or young?
There are a ton of ways to be sexually intimate without having sex. It's called ';outer course';. Massages, gentle touches, body examination, oral sex, manual sex, cuddling, dry sex (actions with clothing on), sex toys, etc.





Anything that feels good can be intimate, and can become sexual.
That's not romantic, that's sexually intimate. Why don't you ask her dad what's appropriate.

I want to ask this girl out, and she is my best friend. I need advice!?

This girl and I are about 3 months difference age wise. We are both 17. I really want to ask her out, and we're best friends. She flirts with me. Idk what to do........can someone gimme some advice?I want to ask this girl out, and she is my best friend. I need advice!?
I assume that she doesn't know you like her. Make it casual. On a Friday or the weekend, just ask her if she wants to see a movie or something. Do something simple. Flirt with her a little, but not too obvious so it isn't really awkward. I would, at the end of the date, tell her how you really feel about her. Then see how it goes from there. Good luck!I want to ask this girl out, and she is my best friend. I need advice!?
I would say just go for it and ask her out sometime, you have nothing to lose expect that she would say no. However, since she's flirting with you i think you have a good chance at her saying yes. If it makes you feel more comfortable, then maybe make it a group get together thing and a bunch of you go bowling or something, you will get to spend some time with her, but also not rushing it too fast. Then after that if things go good, try asking her on a more personal date with just the two of you. Hope everything works out : )
Be honest with her about how you feel. If you are really that close, then both of you can talk about this and come to a mutual understanding. Be careful though, once you take it to the next level, it may be the end of your friendship as you know it.
drop hints like say shes beautiful and nice and funny (if she is)


and just be the nicest you can :)





and when the time is right weather its through text, IM, e-mail%26lt; at school, or when you're together just ask her. :)





hope it works





answer mine :) please http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090201080625AA984Uu
Ask her to the movies . But make sure you guys go to the movies as friends . Then after the movies before you guys leave eachother , tell her : Have you ever thought of us as going out one time ? Tell her you wanna go get some ice cream , not as friends tho . if she comes . Bingo Bango.
i think you should ask her out casually and dont push it right now.


but when you go out, just let her know how you feel. its best to just be real with her like....i been feelin this way for ________ long.





she'll like that
go into a convo that makes her realize what a great guy you probably are. She probably likes you to. then suprise her with like flowers or something and ask her out that way


GOOD LUCK
just be talking on the phone with her and then ask if she is definately flirting. I loved when my best guy friend asked me out.
Send her a love poem telling her your feelings, and then ask her out the next day.
me and my best friend started going out when we were 16 and we have been together since then we are now 18 so i think you should give it a try
just ask her out .. dont wait do it now ..so you can move forward mate ..when she says yes to you .
You need a lubricant





I suggest alcohol. .get her tipsy, then put the moves on her
i think That means she likes you too...i think you should tell her how you feel about here
just ask. but care full you could loose the friendship part
show her ur dick then she will ask u out!!! that is... unless ur small

Asking for a best advice: i want to have a girl friend since i'm graduating already but i'm still very busy.

find someone who can understand your situation and someone who will serve as your inspiration while finishing your studies not someone who destructs you with what your doing right now.... so it's not a problem being busy, infact having a girlfriend now might help you lessen the stress....Asking for a best advice: i want to have a girl friend since i'm graduating already but i'm still very busy.
u have to take out time for it . this is no excuse that you didnot have time for making a girl friend .Asking for a best advice: i want to have a girl friend since i'm graduating already but i'm still very busy.
wHAT ARE U MEANING OF BZ ? 24 HOURS BZ? ARE U ?


ANYHOW PLEASE SYSTEMIZE UR TIME FIRST BEFORE U WANT ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH GIRLS. LOOKING A GIRLS WHICH IS VERY AGGRESSIVE AND ALSO WORKHARD IN HER JOB MAY HELP U TO SOLVE UR PROBLEM
It may be difficult to do both at the same time then. Unless you find a woman who is very understanding, and knows that your studies come first and she will come second. Best of luck !!
I suggest you find a girlfriend who is at university, school, or college as well, maybe even at the same one you are at. Join groups or clubs so you can be social even while you're studying, and this may open up doors to meet girls. This way, your future girlfriend will understand the pressures of study and time management because she will be in the same position as you. Good luck!
Having a gf is not a toy or a possesion you know, you make it sound like you havent got time to nip to the chops to pick up your dry cleaning or summin???
find time for your lovelife......................if it is not possible then maybe it is still not the right time...............





time comes for somethings............
i think that is no easy to find in this time all i can give you please take your time to find her and she will come in the suitabl time when god wish you will find her in your life but make an effort to find her

I like a girl in my class i need some advice!!!!?

i like this girl thats in the same class as i am, but everyone's saying she's with someone else. that person that is with her is my friend. should i tell her how i feel about her and possibly lose two of my friends and even more. or should i wait till they break up and risk losing her forever. im afraid if i tell her how i feel she might not like me back. pls. i need some advice.


P.S. your answers wont affect my whole life all im asking for is optionsI like a girl in my class i need some advice!!!!?
Well, I think if you tell her how you feel, its not going to be the end of the world. And if shes with your friend, your friend shouldn't get mad. He should understand that you can't help the way you feel. And if he does get mad at you and decides not to be your friend any more than he wasn't a real friend from the start! Good Luck!I like a girl in my class i need some advice!!!!?
Well, IF she is going out with your friend, then making any move is probably not the right thing to do. Doing so would risk both friendships and possibly jeopardize other friendships when they realize what you did. Maybe asking your friend how serious he is about her is the better approach? If he is not that serious, you could tell him you really like her and maybe if he isn't that into her, he wouldn't mind if you liked her. Thats assuming she would like you back. I would say, keep your mouth shut, mind your business and find someone else for now. If she becomes available, then you can revisit the possibilities. Good luck!
Do not tell her just yet, you will probably lose both. For now, build up her trust. When ever you and your friend go somewhere ask him to invite her along. Spend time together as a group. Then if they both break up, she will have a shoulder to cry on, and you could possibly get her then. Be warned, if this happens chances are good you will lose your friend. What it all boils down to is balancing your friends. is the girl more important or your friend? Consider this question then take action. You may also want to consider if you could really have a long term relationship with the girl.
well if you don't know if this girld


is going out with your friend


i will recommend you to ask your friend.





once you confirme that he is going out with her.





of course


you are not going to let this chick now about your feelings


why cause you might gain a good anemy (male)


and the female probably wont talk to you at all


because you jeperdize her relationship.





i will recommend you to take it easy


go out meet new people


do not rush


good luck
I think u should tell her everything u feel 4 her. If they r your true friends, they both will understand you. N few girls like if u tell d truth. N main thing is, dat if u tell her just now, der might b some ups n downs, bt it vil b solved soon. N if u tell her after break up, she might feel that u will b same, like your friend, who would live her.
your friend musnt be a bro, because hes breaking the bro code: ';not go out with the girl that your friend likes';
Just tell her, girls dnt like waitin around

I need some advice on wether this girl is possibly into me or not, i dont know whats my next move..?

Well as weak as this will sound i met this girl on a online ';dating'; site i guess, but not really, its kind of a myspace ripoffm but anyway! lol. We messaged back and forth for like a week, nothing really personal, just like, where u goto school, what are u in to, etc.. then she asked if i had a myspace or facebook. She added me on facebook, whats my next play? does it sound like she could be interested or not? i dont really know what my next move is, cuz like i said we really havent talked that much, i would feel wierd messagin her outta no where... p.s. shes realllly hot haha.I need some advice on wether this girl is possibly into me or not, i dont know whats my next move..?
Well, she added you on Facebook, so obviously she wants you bad.





Post pics, plz.I need some advice on wether this girl is possibly into me or not, i dont know whats my next move..?
hmm sweetheart never ever trust an online dating.if she added you in her facebook. whats the big deal?she just added you in her facebook not in her heart! she thinks you are quite decent thats why she added you.now you have to maintain that trust (trust me)i know what girls feels.dont worry just maintain your friendship then one day just tell her you like her and wait for her response.i am sure it will work out fine.trust me.all the best.
i've used dating sites before and really there is no way to know unless you meet her! invite her out to a public place and see where it goes! If you don't message her i'm sure she'll assume you've lost interest

art mask

Help i need advice i like this girl at work and i dont know if i should ask her out?

i work at mcdonalds and so does this girl i am 16 and 6'7 and well i have firted with her and had fun with her and i go to school right across the street from her high school we have fun and you know she play fights with me and hit me on the shoulder but i dont know if i should ask her out she also laugh a little when i like pretned to hit her and she is i think 15 or 16 what should i do.She is black and i am white that doesnt matter to me but i dont know about her what should i do.I dont know if i should ask her out.If i do ask her out and she said no what do you think would happen at work.Help i need advice i like this girl at work and i dont know if i should ask her out?
Ask her out, but at the end, say , ';Or do you wanna just be friends?';





If its a no, just don't get too attached, but then you guys won't be able to play as much as you used to

Going to ask this girl out today in school any advice im shy around girls i like and blush alot?

I can get real freaky around girls i dont like. But for some reason when thier girls i do like i get nervous . Anyways i plan on asking this girl out im going to catch her when she is all alone and go up to her and ask her if she is still single if she says no im going to be like well good for you if she yes yes then im going to say so you want go to go with me or notGoing to ask this girl out today in school any advice im shy around girls i like and blush alot?
Pretend Brad Pitt is your daddy and he's passed all his charm and looks on to you... all the girls want you. Now you should be full of confidence.Going to ask this girl out today in school any advice im shy around girls i like and blush alot?
Listen my friend!!


don't buy her anything!! she will have more respect for you.. you are either the provider.. or the lover.. you choose.. before you get too old and set in your ways..





the provider type gets: dumped all the time cheated on, gets games played on him.. why? because she can get away with it.. and you luuuuuv her.. but the lover. takes no ****.. spends no money on her.. and if she leaves.. big F-ing deal.. more where she came from..


love.. HA! waste of mans time..


remember .. girls are all the same.. 80% emotion. 10% logic..10 % swirling air in their heads..


if you give them a reason to worry if you really like them or not.. they get all confused and start liking you more..





(I KNOW!@ completely illogical'!!)








men are 87 % logic..13% emotion.. don't forget this!!


now.. 5 point please... for something your dad should have told you!!
Don't do it - it's a trap!





Never ever ask a girl out in person.





They say women like to be asked out in person, but what they really like is rejecting guys in person.





You are more likely to get a 'yes' if you ask her by txt or email.





Don't believe anyone who tells you to otherwise.
Just b yourself.
Sometimes The Best Thing To Do Is Be Yourself, And Its Okay To Feel Shy Around People You Like.





Plus I Fell Into A Mop Bucket When I Was About To Get Asked Out So If The Girl Likes You She Might Be A Lil' Shy Around You Too

I need some advice about getting this girl i like to go out with me?

We are both high school seniors and Ive never dated before. I've always been just friends with girls but theres one i want to go out with. We don't normally talk in school but we have known each for years, always been in the same school. I had a party on saturday and she came with my friend and his girl friend. We were team mates in beer pong and we were getting along. I like her. We talked to each other during the party and were both having a good time. Im having another party on wednesday and im almost positive shees coming with my friend and his girlfriend again. I want to make a good impression and ask her out. Im going to talk to her at school tomorrow to make sure shees going and to see if she did have a good time at the first party.





Anyone got any tips? She is a nice girl who is above my league. Im a rather nervous guy when it comes to dating, which is probably why i have never dated before. Appearance wise, she is above my league. Im more heavy set and she is kinda small. We were hitting it off well at my party and just really need some adviceI need some advice about getting this girl i like to go out with me?
Just approach her like how you talked to her during the party. Just be natural and be yourself. Most likely that would work. ^-^

I Need some advice about asking a girl out?

Ok, so I really like this girl and I used to talk to her everyday (usually the Hey, whats up deal). 2 years later, I hardly ever see her and when I do, either she or myself are the in a rush. I want to approach her again, but im the shy type. When I talked to her, i felt a sense of confidence. Now I feel that she's out of my league. I can't get her out of my head and wondering what kind of techniques I should try. Ive heard get her number or facebook/myspace/etc. But I feel it's kind of tacky to get to know her on that.





Plus, don't give me any jive like ';Just talk to her!';, Ive been telling myself that for the last 2 years. She is one of the most beautiful girl ive ever met and It's just really hard for me. I'm afraid I will lose her.I Need some advice about asking a girl out?
Practice in front of a mirror. Be indifferent towards her (don't treat her like she's the queen of England), flirt with her, touch her, make her laugh, be sarcastic with her, never answer her questions directly unless the answer is no (for some reason girls go crazy for this). Oh and a really good one; tell her she smells really good when she's close to you (whisper it in her ear). You'll get her man, hang in there!

Ladies, I need some advice for impressing and dating a girl.?

Number one rule: BE YOURSELF!! Women (most) can see right through a person trying to be something else. If any girl can't accept you for who you are then they're not worth dating. Be yourself, honest, and respectful. Hint: chivalry is not dead and it goes a LONG way. Good luck!Ladies, I need some advice for impressing and dating a girl.?
we are never impressed.Ladies, I need some advice for impressing and dating a girl.?
dont listen to candy. her bf just dumped her. but just be yourself.
Be yourself and have confidence in yourself. Most girls like a guy that's funny, confidence, down to earth and well groomed.
take her to a fancy place that she cant afford and then buy her somthing nice or go out to a place like an indian restaurant or a seafood place or something. then suprise her with a nice gift

There is this girl i like, and i asked her to homecoming and i need some advice.?

we have been best friends for about 8 or so years. i asked her about a week ago, and she still hasen't giving me an answer yet. and then she tells me that she has hockey that night but will see if the other goalie can play. any advice answer i should expect?There is this girl i like, and i asked her to homecoming and i need some advice.?
Ask someone else. If she hasn't committed by now you need to move on.There is this girl i like, and i asked her to homecoming and i need some advice.?
Have a talk with her. Even though you will be intiially nervous, SO IS SHE! Don't worry if you screw up or say the wrong thing, just enjoy yourself and have fun. The reason that she's blanking you is that she either likes you or is trying to find a way to let you down gently. Hope that helped Dude.
Find a girl that wants to go with you, without a doubt. You'll have more fun with someone like that, and this current female could bail on u, last minute.
Geez man, cut her some slack! ;)


shes just worried about letting her team or YOU down.. she obviously wouldnt want to do either and i seriously think that you're waay more important than one hockey game.


dont sweat it.

art mask