Tuesday, November 22, 2011

PLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?

I met this girl about 3 days ago. There were plenty of seats open, and she chose to sit right behind me. I have a class with her. We talked for a couple minutes before class. Then we talked for a minute after class. NOW, today she sat down beside me, and I said ';Hi _____';, and she smiled big, waved and said hi back to me. After class, I asked her why she chose our certain school to go to. She answered back, and we continued our conversation as we headed out the door into the hallway. I asked her another question, and she laughed (with me) and she was smiling at me. Then I said ';I'll see you later';, her eyes got big and she had a cute and big smile on her face and said ';Okay, I'll see you!';


My intuition is telling me that she probably likes me, but she is REALLY SHY. Is it too early to tell if she likes me? When should I ask her out? Is there a way I can find out if she does like me? BTW, I think she may have a pretty good hint that I like her. Advice pleasePLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?
Ask her to help you with a homework problem after class or on a Saturday. Tell her you need her help! Easy to ask! If she says no it's not like you asked her out or anything.PLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?
she likes you.... trust me
Why don't you just ask her to go for a coke or coffee. Sit and talk and get to know each other. It doesn't have to be on 'like' level yet, just acquaintance. Give it a few weeks and see if everything is going smooth, then simply ask if she would like to go out sometime. If she says yes, ask her when she's free. If she says no, say OK, no problem, and keep doing what you're doing now. But___ let her make the next move, in regard to a date. She may just want friends and do things in a group for awhile. Her folks may have some rules. You never know what's behind a person's actions. Take it slow.
Go for it! I think she really likes you but like you said shes shy and if you don't make the first move she probably won't do anything either!
Ask her out now!
she might be being shy cuz she does like u and all u can do is ask her!! the worst that could happen is she says no!! and not askin and regrettin it for a long time is only goin to make it harder to be around her
I think that she does like you, if she didn't she wouldn't show intereste in you like she is, she would probably ignore you if she didn't. I think you should find out what she likes to do and then ask her out on a date. If she likes you shall say no.You will no the answer
Jump on it Duder...what the hell do you really have to lose.. if she is shy she wont tell anyone about it...
all you need to read is 36 24 36
she probably does like u but dont rush things take it slow but still stay interested
Well... I personally think, that you should spend more time with her, so that then she can be herself. I bet you if she was going to be herself with you, she wouldn't be shy. You just have to accept her for who she is. If you walk around your school together, just talking about random stuff, she will be very happy, that there's someone who likes her, and I'm sure that she likes you too ;]
If you rush things it won't go smoothly so take things slowly it's obvious she wants to be friends so maybe you can try just being that guy friend that every girl appreciates. But try not to be around her alot cause then she won't have a chance to miss you if u understand ';absence makes the heart grow fonder';. Maybe you can ask her if she wants to study together for the class you take together.So for now don't rush things patience is a virtue so have some and anyways it's not like she's going anywhere.


And again don't rush things i know what i'm saying it just messes things up.
yea, she likes you, don't ask her out quite yet, though keep talking to her for a couple more days then ask her if she'd like to go do something like, go out to eat somewhere.
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YES she likes you! If she's sitting next to you now and talking with you then she finds you nice and easy to talk to, and thats always a good thing. I would continue to be friendly with her, then after class is over and your walking together ask her out....i doubt she will say ';no'; if she is continueing to show interest in you. :D
She probably likes you; attempt to get to know her better and then ask her out.
I was once one of those shy girls and met a guy like you in class and I really wanted him to ask me out, he did but I hung onto the car do like he was some kind of a serial killer! If she is as shy as I was its going to take a few dates for her to ease up and get comfortable with you. Try walking her to her classes first they see if you can have lunch at her table next after a couple of weeks and you see that's she's more relaxed around you then try asking her out but for heavens sake if your going to try to make a move on her a simple kiss and leave it at that for a time. I'm pretty sure she knows you've got your eye on her but just take it slow. Good luck.
Well, Im kind of a shy girl so I can tell you. She probably just thinks you're cute or would make a good friend, so she wants to stay by you. Just keep talking to her, sitting by her, walking with her, and she'll finally open up to you. If she keeps showing signs that she likes you, then you make first move, b/c if she's shy, she wont do it. But if she's just looking for someone to talk to, then be that someone and soon it would probably lead to something more.
well maybe you like her but if shes shy maybe shes just talking to you





if yer cute then maybe its YES
i think she does like you but maybe you can ask her friend if she likes someone
Well get to know her at school just a tad more then ask her ro go on a date with you like bowling or putt putting then see how things go from there if it is all good then ask her out.
I say go for it. Ask her to a movie for this coming Sunday or something so it's not too far in advance but it's soon enough to give you both something to look forward to. :) If she's not interested you have the whole weekend to come to terms with that, but if she is (which it sounds like it is) you're off to a good start and come Monday you two will have a whole lot more to talk about. :)





good luck!!
If you think she likes you continuing talking to her. Be her friend then see where it goes from their.

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