Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I really need advice on gettin this girl, help!?

U see back in yr 8 i started liking a girl who every lad is after, but my friends had to broadcast it cus there so spitefull, now i asked her out str8 she said 'no, i want us to be friends.' so i respected wat she wanted, after say 12months i started feeling even more 4 her i was a yung idiot and was mivering her tryin 2 court her hopin she wud feel something bak in the end i got over her but it was 2 l8 i got accused of stalking (which i didnt) and she hated me but now 8 months l8r ive noticed a change in her were always havin a laugh shes takin the mickey outta my music shes findin me funnier and ive noticed her looking at me once or twice im startin 2 like her again and im not sure if i can go thru it again wat if i scare her away again we have a yr of skewl left i dont wana leave it 2 l8 an cud she possibly like me now its been a long timeI really need advice on gettin this girl, help!?
You two DO NOT have good history! i know its been a while but you dont want to scare her off again, particularly because she has accused you of stalking her in the past! surely if you liked her this much and you two get along well you will see each other after school finishes? i would leave it a bit and look for any signs that she likes you - ok, she's having a laugh with you - i do that with a lot of guys, it doesnt mean i fancy them all! look for her flicking her hair, laughing A LOT, and looking deep into your eyes etc





I am saying this because i really dont think you and this girls friendship/relationship will survive another attempt from you at taking things further and her rejecting you again - it will upset you and may make her feel very uncomfortable around you. you said you have a year - show her how amazing you are! if you're friends with a similar group of people arrange a group thing, such as the cinema, or just going to the park or whatever - spend time with her, but dont get too intense. when you REALLY know her, you'll be able to tell if she has feelings for you





good luck!I really need advice on gettin this girl, help!?
she might. however, it's best to let her make the first move this time, just so that you don't freak her out. this may sound mean, but in this case it's best not to get your hope up :(
just wait a few weeks and see how she asks if she hints that she is starting to like you then if she isnt acting like she hates you or sumthin ask her out
jus leave her alone... u dont want a reputation of a stalker 2 be wit u wit da rest of ur life, right??? bad puppy! stay away!lol
yea ask her out but before you do make she she has feeling for u 1st
i wouldnt push it to far if she thought you were stalking her before deffinetly do not take that path again... i would try just being friends for a while and see if it builds into a relationship... dont try to push her into one again though cause that may push her away just try having a normal friendship with her with out reading into it to much.. if she likes you wait for her to make the move or tell you... but dont scare her off cause it sounds like you would rather have her as a friend than nothing at all right

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