Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I Need Some Advice On Asking A Girl Out?

I Like This One Girl Shes Beautiful/Gorgeous/ Sweet Maybe A Little Out Of My League But You Never Know (I Dont Know If She Even Likes Me) That Comes Into My Work Everyday When She Buys Coffee And Drinks For Herself And For People She Works With. She Comes In My Line All The Time And When I Get A Chance I Strike Up A Conversation With Her. I Also Really Look Forward To When She Comes In. Ive Never Hung Out With Her Or Anything I Only Know Her From Where I Work And From Where She Works....





Ive Been Trying To Work Up The Courage/Nerve To Ask Her Out But Im Afraid Of That Awkwardness If She Says No Or Not Right Now. Im A Little Shy So Its Harder For Me Than Most Other People. Also Id Be Afraid To Talk To Her When She Comes In The Next Couple Of Times. I Also Dont Know Her Status (If Shes Seeing Anyone)....





I Also Know Her Friends That Come In From Her Work Next Door And After I Get Done Ringing Them Up I Usually Say Tell So And So I Said Hi/Hey/Whats Up You Get The Idea. So When Her One Friend Came In After I Got Done Ringing Her Up Before I Could Say It She Said Ill Tell So And So You Said Hi. What Do You Think That Means?





Also I Told Her, The Girl I Like That I Might Come In And Open An Account With Them And When I Got Off I Went Over There And Opened One Up, The Girl I Know Did It For Me And She Said To Me So And So Said (The Girl I LIke) You Might Be Coming In To Open One Up....





So What Do You Think All That Means? Do You Think She Thinks About Me Too Because She Talked About Me At Her Work Or Do You Think She Just Mentioned I Might Be Coming In Becuase A Lot Of The Poeple She Works With Knows Me Too....





Also I Think She Said She Has A Kid So, Im Not Too Sure Because We Were Busy And I Couldnt Really Here Her. I Said Did You See Fast And Furious Yet And She Said Well What I Think She Said Was No I Havnt Had Time I have A Kid/Son....





Now How Should I Ask Her Out?





1) Would You Like To Go Out Some Time?





2) Would You Like To Hang Out Some Time?





3) Would It Be Okay If I Gave You A Call Some Time?





Or Would She Feel More Comfortable If I Asked Her Out For A Group Thing Like Rock And Bowl Or Something Like That?





Im 25 By The Way And I Think She May Be 21 Or 23. Im Not Sure I Have Trouble With Just Telling Someones Age By Looks....





I Need Some Advice Please Help Me....I Need Some Advice On Asking A Girl Out?
I think that you should just work your way up. start a conversation with her at work and just when she has to go do something (or you do) then just ask.. number 1 or 2.. NOT number 3.. and dont act shy. women dont like shy guys. and dont worry about the awkwardness if ever she says no. would you rather survive a few seconds of embarassment or spend the rest of your time wondering what it would be like?, knowing that she probably would say yes anyway..


guys get rejected all the time... and so do girls .. thats just life, and it doesnt mean theres anything wrong with them. the reason why they say no is probably more based on them(like in this case she might not be sure cos of her kid or she might already be seeing someone) rather than the person whos actually asking..


good luck ;)I Need Some Advice On Asking A Girl Out?
If you have no solid impression that she likes you then she probably does not. If you ask her out, she'll say no and you'll feel hurt. Then it's going to be all weird after that.

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