I need some advice with a shy girl!!! Girls Plz!!?

There's this shy girl I like. She's got me to notice her and would do things to get my attention. She came up with a nickname for me, and has given me signs that she likes me for 2 years. She would get nervous when she was around me, and has given me alot of stares. I told her I liked her in may and she was hiding a smile when I told her. I could make her smile easily without making her laugh. She asked me to dance with her at a dance at school. She talks about me around her family, she told me she wanted to get to know me and start out as friends. Then


There was a dance at school, and she asked me to dance with her there. We were dancing and then people started taking pictures of us, and teasing us. Then we were done dancing and she told me she asked me to dance cuz she wanted to dance with me. The dance was over and we couldn’t stop making eye contact, the look she gave me showed me her real feelings. The next day at school she is telling her friends that she danced with me cuz she felt sorry for me. But also she was giving me signs she liked me the next day too.


What should I believe what she told me or what she told her friends?


P.s. she has a fear of getting hurt and has never had a boyfriend.I need some advice with a shy girl!!! Girls Plz!!?
You should believe what she told you. The stuff with her friends is just talk. She doesn't want to get made fun of by her friends. She will have to take the leap to a relationship, some day, so try to ease her mind and show her you care about her fears and feelings. Get her to talk to you about her fears and reassure her that you will be gentle and that you really care about her. Good luckI need some advice with a shy girl!!! Girls Plz!!?
ask her out---it's pretty clear she likes you, and I think she probably just said that to her friends because of her fear of being hurt. She feels vulnerable because of her feelings for you, I think, so she is not sure whether or not she wants any of her friends to know about them. I think she would say yes if you asked her out, though.
She really likes you, but is scared of comitting and doesn't want to get hurt. Just tell her exactly how you feel. That you really care about her, and that she's special, and that you would never hurt her. You both need to be clear about your feelings, and since she's shy you need to make the first move. What you two have is really rare- I'd love to have a relationship like that. Good luck.
she playin games.thats what shy stoopid girls do hehe sorry.you jus have to be straight foward with her without putting her in an akward position.it doesn't seem like she too shy cuz she asked you to dance.lmao.if she never had a boifriend then obviously she probably doesn't know how to kiss or what to say or how to make out.so dun make that weird for her.dun tease her on her lack of experience.sorry if that doesn't help.btw baby she diggginnn you!
She likes you but her self -esteem is shot because either she realizes people think she is uncool and she is bringing you down so she can bring herself up or she just has major issues. Simply just suck it up and let her know you like her or not and ask her whats really going on. If she wants to play games and doesn't open up to you then forget about her.
well if thee lil girl never had a boyfriend she dosent need to say she danced with you cuz she felt srry but you need to confront her cuz it may make you look badd.ppl will start to think she dance with you out of pitty.


if i was you i wouldent like her because of that.she needs to GROW UP.!!!!
she could have told her friends that because it would be embarrassing for her, ?


but all i know is that that's how i am ahaha. well i think she likes you. but start out as her friend %26amp; like help her out with her problems and give her lotsss of compliments.


eventually she'll trust you enough to go out with you.


hope you two end up going outtt (:
She probably really likes you, and is just embarrassed about it. I think she's afraid her friends might make a big deal about it and tell EVERYONE, or she's afraid they might tease her. If you really like her, then go for it, and hope it works out really well... Good Luck ☆!!!
it's up to you, maybe her friend is teasing her that you are his boyfriend already which is not yet, so she might answer back that she just felt sorry so that she dance with you. if i where you i will ask her directly if she like you or not
if what you said is all true, then it sounds like she likes you a lot but she is afraid of what her friends might think of you.if they dont like you, she might pretend that she doesnt like you either when deep down inside, she really does.i no because i have done that before.
i seriously think she is immature i suggest you pull her aside and tell her to tell you what her deal is tell her you arent a toy for her to lead you on and put you down and play with you how she feels like. i think she likes you though how old is she 12?





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I'm sure she just said that to her friends because she was being teased. She likes you. Just do something romantic like leave her a flower, or a short note. Ask her out in a group setting, casual, go slow. She's nervous. Good luck!
well,u said they started making fun of you-maybe she felt bad and invented dat to tell her friends.eather way,no one knows whats on her mind,so go talk to her.when you talk to her look in her eyes so she can't resist and tell the truth!
ask her why she told her her friends that and tell her how you really feel and dont feel you need to fall in love at such a young age sounds to me like she has a lot of problems if she is fronting put her in her place nicely
It sounds like she really does like you and I think you should keep talking to her and try to make her less shy around you. Also if you do ask her out dont surprise too much. Good luck dude.
She didn't ask you to dance because she felt sorry for you; she asked you because she likes you! Sounds like she just wants to take it slow. Just keep charming her and give it some time.
She totally likes u. Don't sweat it. Just tell her that if she dosent tell you the truth about why she danced with you then you don't know that you could ever trust her.
Just be really friendly and hang out a lot, eventually she'll be comfortable around you plus girls at a young age get scared some guys can be really mean if you tell them you like them so just keep being friends and see where it goes
first of all,forget outsiders and focused between you and her.


if she really likes you and you as well go for her.


maybe those are just rumors trying to get you mixed
Call her out on what she said. The only way to know is if you talk to her about the situation. Don't let her play games like that.





She probably does like you but is confused about what to do.
Oh that explains why she said that to her friends she really shy and never around a type a guy you should bulive her what she told you not what she told her friends.
i think you confront her talk to her alone like on date and i think that u show her that its ok u WONT hurt her only if u wont
Well, she shouldnt have said anything like that to her freinds. If she meant what she said, then shes a real.... get rid of her.
umm wow well i think she likes you but she probably wants to make herself all cool now.. tht was pretty stupid for her to go tell her friends that
This is strictly my opinion but she could just be play'n you bro
yeah she doesnt want 2 get hurt. well i think u should believe what she said 2 u. b/c she probably only told her friend that b/c of peer


presure or whatever. i think u should ask her. and if she says that what she said 2 u was true ask her why she lyed 2 her friend. what ever she says or does will determine if she really meant what she said 2 u or what she said 2 her friend. o and i think u need 2 watch some chick flicks! u wouldnt have 2 ask us people of the online world b/c would u already know!
She doesn't sound very shy to me- that wasn't very considerate of her at the dance. I'm a little confused as to what her motives are. To keep staring at you and smiling sounds like she likes you, but that stunt she pulled at the dance seems the opposite. She sounds like a sneaky character to me, she could've made up that thing about being afraid of getting hurt. I am a very quiet girl myself and it would not be in my nature to lie to a guy that I liked. I would suggest backing away from her for a while and watch her throughout the school day. I have learned a lot about people just by observing their actions. You may discover something else suspicious that she has done. You might decide that you don't like her anymore. Think about why you like her. Is she pretty, smart, nice, friendly? (Her behavior doesn't make her sound nice). Good luck!
If I was in these girls shoes,I would want you to tell me how you felt and MAYBE ask me out after(that's only if your reaction is good).Shy girls have a hard time with admitting they're feelings because they don't want attention brought to them. SO when you tell her I would do it over the phone, in text, or when you two are alone at school or hanging out one on one. You sound like you really have an intense crush and she to you so I would just go for it(:


Hoped I helped
the P.S. ANSWERS ALL OF THAT. she is ok with going a little bit of the way, but not all the way. You need to step up and be more aggressive with her, and let her know that you like her.It sounds like she is doing all the work anyhow, sweetie. Its too much he said she said. If she felt THAT sorry for you she wouldnt put that much time and attention into you. She may have felt pressure by her friends and ';fronted'; Guys do it all the time or else she could have been teasing or just being silly, to play off the fact that she likes you so much. TWO years? Why r you still wasting time?
your so called friend seems to be very afraid to get close to some one but that doesn't stop you from asking her out. ya i know its scary but a girl like that i bet probably 70% she would say yes to you. she seems out going only with people in her family or her best friends. she doesnt wwant to get hurt by you. think she just said those things to her friends becuase she doesnt trust you a hundred percent. she feeels she cant but most likely is afraid to get scratched out into the nobody pile to you. plus tips and advice: never hate her!!! or at least tell her that. i always say this becuase its true but do what will make you wake up in the morning and smile at.
Personally, I think that she danced with you because she likes you. A lot of people do not believe it, but the eyes are ';the windows to the soul.';


What she told her friends might have been a lie because she wanted them to stay her friends. (Being shy, she might have problems making good friends and keeps any friends she makes, no matter how rude, or mean they may be)


If you like her, give her a chance, but don't push her, or put her on the spot.


Hope it works out.