Advice on asking a girl out?

Im 21year old boy and not very confident at all. There is a girl who I work with, I am very good friends with and have been for about 2 years. She is 20, a bit shy when it comes to boys and hasn't had a boyfriend or sex before. Someone at work asked her out about a year ago and she said no, now they don't talk to each other very often because they are both embarrassed. She is a great friend and I don't want to do anything to lose that but im crazy about her and want to spend more time together. I feel like she likes me more but then I don't know if its just because we are friends, im not very good at reading signs. I don't want things to get awkward between us even if it means I have to keep my feelings bottled up.


What would be the best way for me to have a closer relationship with her, anyone have some good advice?!Advice on asking a girl out?
Just ask her to hang out casually. If it turns into a date, it turns into a date. That's the best way to look at it. :)





The more formal it is, the more chances there are for the two of you to be awkward or make fools of yourselves. That way, y'all are hanging out as friends and allowing things to fall where they may. No embarrassment.





Good Luck!Advice on asking a girl out?
Just tell her you really like her and that you want to know how she feels about you but tell her that you don't want this to inter fear with your friendship.


And if she doesn't like you and it gets awkward just ask why u both aren't talking as much.








If she says she likes you ,happy days.
the thing about that is... things can get really awkward... what i'd say is just ask her to go somewhere that has a lot of people like the state fair or somethin and just hang out together for a while and go from there. sometimes you just have to lay yourself out there.. sometimes it ends good sometimes it doesnt





but if shes that much of a friend.. then i would think twice
Talk to her outside of work, about subjects that aren't related to work. You can build on that, such as going out for lunch together sometime, or meeting for something casual after work. If all this goes OK, then ask her out, but not till then.
nothings gonna happen if u dnt make a move, ask her y she hasnt had a boyfriend before, try to flirt with her, when the time is right tell her how u feel if she turns u down, so wat? U tried ur best dats wat matters
just ask her out





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Be patient.
It's a risk you have to decide to take - if this girl means so much to you, and you want her to be more - well, you'll never feel fully satisfied if all you are is work buddies.





It's better to regret what you have done, rather then what you haven't.





Don't play any games or get one of her mates to ask her how she feels, just be entirely honest about your feelings and worries that you might ruin a good friendship. Try asking her out on a date for dinner or to the movies one night.


The worst that could happen is if she says no, and act cool about it - it obviously wasn't meant to be, so still stick it out for the friendship ;)





Good luck,


Jess