Need advice on convincing a girl...?

Alright well I met this girl at the beginning of February. She happens to be a good friend of my good friend's girlfriend. A little background on her from what i've heard and discovered on my own is that she hasnt had the best relationships in the past. Her last boyfriend cheated on her numerous times, which she actually just found out about. They just broke up a week or so before i met her. Well anyways we talked for a few weeks from texting to eventually having a couple hours of phone conversation a night. She lives an hour and a half away(back where i live but i moved down to college) and first chance i got i headed up there. We hung out at another party and everything went extremely well. The next night we went out on a date and once again everything else went extremely well. I am really liking this girl but after the date she gives me some crap that she had a really good time and she thinks i'm really nice but she just lost interest. I've heard from friends that she does this often and i believe that she is afraid of getting involved with anybody because of her past with guys. I will be going back up to her area in a week or so and will most definitely run into her while i am there cause we have a few different mutual friends and hang out spots. How do i convince her to not be afraid and to give it a chance because i truly am a good person and would never mistreat a girl?Need advice on convincing a girl...?
Unfortunately, the guy she gets with after having that issue ISNT the one to convince her.


Most of the time it's from her having an epiphany or getting over it herself. Maybe her friend(s) can convince her since they truly have her trust.





If you wouldn't mistreat a girl then you know that you have to respect them. Part of respecting HER is respecting get decision. That's the best way to go.





Don't keep talking to her though!!!!


You seriously DO NOT want to be dragged into the ';friend'; catagory.


If she says she's not interested, give her some time and space.





Within time, go back and reclaim what's rightfully yours! =)





Just don't try to force it....


Those are always the worst kind of relationships.





Well good luck.


Hope I helped!!!