Saturday, July 31, 2010

Dating advice 101...dating a girl, feel like just telling her what's up...help?

I'm 22, I've always been the outside guy for girls in relationships, and very casually dated, for various reasons. Anyways. Haven't had a relationship in a really long time, it'd be nice, what can I say, and this girl I believe likes me that I've been dating for a few weeks is driving me F*@%ng crazy. She just got out of a yearlong relationship and all, and I really just want to say what I feel, but anyone and everyone knows you don't talk about your emotions with a girl you're dating...gotta be mystery, obviously. But at the same time, would it hurt to just say me true feelings in a Rico Suave sort of way?Dating advice 101...dating a girl, feel like just telling her what's up...help?
For real? Honest communication is the foundation for lasting relationships, Hollywood and the media have brainwashed our culture into thinking that drama filled relationships are normal and even exciting. Having ';mystery'; is nothing compared to the bond and closeness that comes from being completely open and honest with a loved one. Granted your relationship is fairly new, you should talk to her about where you want this relationship to go, and express your true feelings. A relationship that has secrets always ends badly.Dating advice 101...dating a girl, feel like just telling her what's up...help?
i wud say tell her straight out how u feel..girls always like it wen guys are upfront about their feelings..do u feel like she wud want u as a bf as well n if u think she wud then u shud make the move because girls dont wanna seem easy n guys should make the move so u should do it n treat her n a likable way dont give her the wrong impression that u might just want her to mess round or stuff...n maybe give her a call...
if the chick is younger than 25, then you better make sure you stay mysterious





older chicks can appreciate when a man is man enough to open up a LITTLE (only a little) but younger chicks don't respond well to that





so just stay in what rappers call ';pimp mode';
i think you should go for it. giving it a shot wont do any harm

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