Make this a learning opportunity. What does the situation say about you and your social development? Are you intellectually mature enough to look beyond the circumstances to your career and educational opportunities.
Will you even know this guy five years from now?I need advice my boyfriend talks to this girl that i dont like because she hits on him?
tel him its me or the Wh0R3. pick one or im out. play tough girl
You need to tell your man to either ditch this ******, or lose you forever. RESPECT!!!
just tell him the truth
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Are you his Mother? Does he tell you who you can and who you cannot talk to? Why are you bringing this up to him? Do you think he should try and control this girl? Why is your paranoia his problem, and why don't YOU just handle your problem - sure seems alot easier than arguing or trying to tell him what to do.
Guys are pretty naive when it comes to girls and hitting on them. If they are not looking for it or want it, they can just ignore it. HE says she is just a friend, so that means you do NOT trust HIM or the girl. That is not good. No wonder you argue about it all. He tells you to quit being paranoid, learn to trust him, and please do not tell him what to do. YOU have a problem with trust, and you are demanding that HE fix it even though HE does not see a problem.
OK, since trusting him around her is something you refuse to do, then you need to talk to the girl. Just very nicely explain that your guy is your guy and you do not share, so please hit on someone else. She will laugh at you and probably say no, but at least you tired. You could just yank her hair when you see her flirting with your guy, just make sure you do not have any witnesses. If all else fails, then you either are going to have to TRUST him or let him go. Seriously, the problem is yours and you have no right demanding he fix it for you.
Tell him the truth. Tell him how you feel.
In every good relationship there should be communication.
I am sure he'll understand.
Good Luck!
Plus, don't let it get any worse, tell him ASAP. =)
your bf??..sounds like he's her bf...and you the one buttin in
tell him exactly what you said here, make it clear you dont want to be controlling but you also really like him, and him being around her makes you feel a bit worried, i knwo how you feel, i get the same way when my girlfirnd is with other guys, you do need to try to trust him though or the relationship will not work, also when you bring it to his attention dont like yell, or freak out or hell want to leave the relationship
u need to talk to him honestly. if hes too self obsessd to understand, DUMP HIM
How come your bf goes out on dates with other girls? Are you in an exclusive relationship because if you are not then you should not get mad? Talk to your bf and tell him that you are out the door if he does not stop seeing her. If he is really your bf then he would pick you if not then move on. He is not worth your time.
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