Advice for a QUIET girl, going into a new school..?

I'm painfulllly quiet, i feel like i can't help it, its not that im to shy to say anything, it's that i just dont know what to say..


I joined the tennis team at this new school i'm going to.. ive really only made one friend so far.. i still feel like i can't talk to the other girls.. and im really nervous for the first day..


does anyone have any advice for me, on how to overcome this problem, it means soo much, thank you%26lt;3Advice for a QUIET girl, going into a new school..?
I'd have to say I'm quite quiet as well, just about on the verge of awkward. I notice that I always meet a person I have no problem connecting to though. Maybe you'll find one too. But just remember, it's okay to try and be outgoing, but you don't have to completely jump out of your comfort zone if it doesn't feel right.Advice for a QUIET girl, going into a new school..?
On the first day of school, shank the most popular girl in the school.





Then, you will be the most popular girl. You won't have to talk; others will swarm around you and compliment you all day, just so you won't shank them.
Sometimes, all you have to do is comment on a situation: ';Great serve'; or ';It's really hot out today!'; They may look at you funny, but they JUST MAY say ';Thanks! You're not too bad either'; or ';I know, it's not that hot where I'm from'; which leads to more things to talk about. Just be yourself, only vocalize some of your feelings :)
Even though you say you are not shy which may be true when you are with your established friends but we can see here in this new school you are shy as well as anxious, It is pretty clear to me that you are suffering with some self worth problems (Not serious ones) normal ones. In this new school there is pressure on you that you have created already about (AM i going to fit in?) This is only a bit of self doubt, which again causes anxiety, No biggie. The fact that you joined the tennis team shows you do have the ability to break through your anxiety, I bet you are a pretty good tennis player, Any way if this kind of shyness keeps up then when you are relaxing or ready to sleep just picture in your mind talking and laughing and having a great time with these new students, Picture youself as how you really want to be. This kind of meditation works try it and you will see it is so. But i really don't think you are going to need it because of your joining tennis and also posting your question, But it cannot hurt to do this for anything you want to do or be.
i used to be like you a shy quiet girl but not anymore


to make friends just go up to someone and tell them ';hi my name is so and so'; and then ask something about tennis like why they like it, how long they been playing etc..





good luck in making new friends!
omg girl, SAME!!! I just went to high school and NONE of the people from my old school are here. btw, im also a tennis chick :P :D YOu've got to be open tho, i mean what did it forme was that i remembered that no one elses opinion matters. Its like you except different body. If u present yourself in a 'i dont care what u think, ur just as goodd/important as me' u'll figure out it really works!! like all those really outgoing people just put themselves out there, thats why everyone likes them, not because their witty or nothing.