I need some advice! Guys mostly but girls can answer too <3?

I love my bf more than anything. We're very serious and planning to get married. We've been together for a year now without one argument between us. The thing is though, he's gotten pretty chubby and I need a way to tell him to get in shape without hurting his feelings. He talks about how he needs to lose it but hasn't done anything about it for a few months now. Any ideas?I need some advice! Guys mostly but girls can answer too %26lt;3?
you can just said to him look we are getting married soon so can you try to lose some because is better for you to sorry not that i don't love you but i am worry about your chubby can we go to the GM,%26amp; i think i need to lose to so what you say we try .I need some advice! Guys mostly but girls can answer too %26lt;3?
try inviting him to workout with you or start buying more healthy foods.


either that or just have more sex.
Why don't you try exercising together. Make out like he is helping you while you are realy helping him. Jog, play catch, any one of a number of different things. Besides it is something else you can now do together.
Tell him you care about his health and you BOTH could make some improvements. Eating a good balanced diet, exercising, doing outdoor activities. If you suggest doing these things together he wont feel like he's being attacked. He'll feel like you need help and a lifestyle change too (even though you probably dont at all)
Make him go to the gym every week and make him eat protein food.
Maybe if you suggest both of you go take a hike or walk your dog for an hour. Little steps to get him into a healthier lifestyle. I wouldn't mention his weight to him though because that's mean. Next time he talks about wanting to lose weight just be super supportive. and it also helps if you go to healthier restaurants and make healthier meals. :) Good luck
Don't come right out and tell him, or make him feel bad.








Plan a couple days a week to go for a run or a jog WITH him, or go to the gym WITH him, or take him biking or dancing. Do something you can both do together--make it fun, don't make it seem like he HAS to do this or you're going to leave him.





:) Plus, you'll benifit too!