Saturday, July 31, 2010

Relationship Advice ( Falling for a girl ) but then she says she needs space?

Hey people just need a little help, pretty much to sum everything up in nut shell, i have been seeing this girl for about 2 months, we both go to school together but we are in opposite careers, we started to talk around the 3 day of school, then we started to hang out for a bit and then started to date/seeing each other each, all of a sudden last week she started to get distance, but reason for this she had to take some medication for her bacterial infection which the side effects are mood swings, which is not that big of a problem, the beginning of this week she states that she needs some space to think about her problems, now i m not going in depth but 1 big issue is that, her past relationships no guy has really treated her good, now that she has met me she says no guy has ever treated her like i have ( pretty much willing to listen to her problems, help her with her problems, willing to do things for her, telling her to call me anytime if anything goes wrong, be there for her and pretty much that's it, at the sametime she also said that she does not want to get hurt again, but she says that she's falling for me so much and i feel the same also, but with all her saying these stuff 1 month in and then all of a sudden she needs space, makes no sense for me what so ever, also this one guy that is her ex that she was seeing seems to be back in the picture but he has his own issues to deal with, and is placing blame on her for his dead mother, i just need some advice right now, cause im falling for this girl almost everyday and it kills us both at school that she said to me that she needs space but i can see it in her eyes that she stills wants us to be together..Relationship Advice ( Falling for a girl ) but then she says she needs space?
because she sees you so great she prob is fearful of losing you. She prob has been through enough heartbreaks and the needing space is because she probably needs to stop getting freaked out that you will leave. if shes telling you those things they are prob true, and shes prob trying to tell you shes not used to it and shes scared you will leave. talk to her about it. ask her if shes scared you'll leave, and promise, only if its true that you won't. make her see it. goodluck.Relationship Advice ( Falling for a girl ) but then she says she needs space?
You need to run as fast as you can. When she needs distance, you are history - especially with this ex in the picture. It's the old ';bad boy syndrome';. Girls like her can't stay away from the troubled guys that need help and her thoughts are that she's going to save him even though he'll pull her down first. Forget what her eyes say. She may want you but her low self-esteem will never let her have you. You're gonna get hurt.

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