Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Advice on asking a girl out?

Well, I'm 21 and I've never had a gf. I am a shy person with strangers but I'm quite the talker with people I know. I have a sense of humor and I love having a good laugh. I'm a nice, easygoing guy but I feel like girls think I'm invisible. I don't think many girls have liked me. There is this girl who has been giving me hints and I like her too but I attempted to ask her out and I became a nervous wreck so I just joked my way out (plus, I was c%26amp;*k-blocked). I have been told I'm cute but I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Any ideas on how to ask her out? Any flirting tips? Am I even boyfriend material?Advice on asking a girl out?
If there is a girl and you don't ask her out the answer is no anyway. If you do ask her out and she says no, then nothing has changed. I never understood this problem with asking people out. Ask, ask and ask some more. If you never ask the answer is always no anyway. So why not get a real no? Maybe, just maybe, one of them will say yes?Advice on asking a girl out?
';Am I even boyfriend material';





if you're male, you are boyfriend material.





don't worry so much, this girl has already shown that she's interested. approach her honestly and tell her that you'd like to get to know her better and that you'd like her to help you understand how to approach her for a date. she's a woman, right?, she'll help you...
You just need a wing-man. I am the same exact way! But, when I have one of my best girlfriends I find it a lot more easier to approach guys. About asking that girl out; approach her with your friend casually or text her and say ';Hey, we should go catch this movie?'; like friends. So there won't have to be a lot of talking and at the end, talk about the movie. Maybe even end the night with some icecream(: you'll totally warm up to her.


Girls love a joker too. So you score there!
Dont sweat it! Never think about how your going to ask her. Find the surpream moment and BOOM it will happen. If your cute, then your pretty damn cute girls like that! Be yourself, its cliche but we enjoy the selfness :D. Hope I helped xoxo





-taylor xoxo





P.S Flirt comes naturally just compliment her and things will flow.
Give hints a lot, not dropping bombs. Does the girl take it slow, too? If so, ask her out to eat first, then take it from there. Make sure to ask her lots of questions, and be humorous. There is nothing to be worried about. Crack open your shell and be the great guy you are.


*Good Luck!*
Be honest; tell her that you're so flabbergasted by desire for her that it would probably be easier if the two of you got naked and wrestled as soon as possible and then the conversations will come easier.





If that doesn't work, then spoil her with flattery.
CONFIDENCE


CONFIDENCE


CONFIDENCE


is key.





Girls want to KNOW you want them.





Just be casual, and let your nice, humorous side come out


Show this girl what you have to offer.





Just step outside of the box and comfort zone a little.





Best of Luck! :D
You're definitely boyfriend material. You seem very sweet.


I say just go for it. By the way it sounds, she likes you, and you're a decent guy - she'll accept. What's the worst that can happen?





Just ask :)
Smile at her, wink at her, bite your lip or just something that would drop a good hint. Go for it! I bet she likes you! (:








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JUST BE YOUR SELF!!! she must like how you look so show her who you are. Anyone can be boyfriend material but by the way you just described your self you must be great boyfriend material.
Just be kind and talk a little then say do u want to go out with me and then say when. And tell her u think she is pretty thats how my bf asked me out and i couldnt say no!!!
Talk and get to know her.After that ask her something like ';are you free on Saturday night?';.Ask her whether she wants to go to a movie if she's free.
wink at her one day....the next day say something to her...next day just ask her out
Be confident and try to ask her out. with out freaking her out
step one: get her number. be the last thing she thinks of before she goes to sleep and youre pretty much in. you need to be confident (not cocky). confidence and self assurance is attractive and if you do it right, asking her out will be easy. also don't jump to conclusions. don't say 'will you be my girlfriend' right away. ask her if she wants to get dinner or see a movie. or mention a concert in town. do something fun and relaxed with just the two of you and with no strings attached. if you need more advice feel free to contact me.
Jus grow some testicals and ask her out.. there is no wrong way to ask a girl out as long as its somewhat sanitary and socially acceptable outdoors. even if you make a lil bit of a fool out of yourself its fine. they might laugh, but if u can make a girl laugh then its mostly down hill.. unless she has no sense of humor. if u still feel like ur iffy bout takin the leap.. jus try makin an alter ego of yourself where your confident too the point where your a lil cocky. itll make it easier to ask a girl out cuz even if by sum chance u get rejected, u wnt giv a *** cuz U are the SH*T! jus keep that in mind
give her comments but no time to respond, when walk by quietly say you look nice today. be confident nothing is more attractive then a confident guy.. and dont back down at the last minute she will be able to tell. when you ask her out DONT bring a huge thing of flowers but doo something cute.. maybe go old school and pass her a note where she can check yes or now.. if she says yes pass it back with your number and wink when you leave the room.. but spend a couple days before the day you ask her out flirting with her and start small conversation but not awkward ones, if its awkward then shes sure to say no.. if she has plans that night say ';okay, another night then?'; dont seem to desperate. but dont make the plans right then say';let me know when you free.'; in about a week if she hasn't said anything go up to her and say ';how about that date?';
I started dating around 18, but didn't have anything serious until I turned 21. Best thing to do is to NEVER joke your way out of something. If you're c%26amp;^k-blocked, just ask her later.





The only way you're going to get those butterflies out of your stomach is by asking girls out. It took me five different girls before the jitters were miniscule (they were still there, but weren't enough to make my stomach go in knots haha). No matter what her answer is, the jitters go away when she responds. Trust me.





Seriously, if you don't try to joke your way out of it (i.e. pretend like you've done this before), it'll look a lot better for you.


Get yourself in a different mind-set. Don't act like this is life-or-death. You'll feel a lot better when you can just casually ask a girl out. Just practice.

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