Advice on life, a girl, avoiding discouragement... myriads of things...?

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Let me know if there's anything that I can clarify on.Advice on life, a girl, avoiding discouragement... myriads of things...?
1.First of all you are asking people here to answer questions you don't know the answer to yourself and with a Christian world view no less. There is something to be said about the guidance of the Holy Spirit. He is the one who is supposed to be guiding you in such matters. You need to spend some more time in scripture and prayer and less with the internet or you are likely to get something that people have told you about as opposed to what fits you.


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3.You have plenty of time get your education and see someone when you have time. Mix it up you sound like a young man who hasn't met many girls and got to know them. Get to know a variety then choose a few to really get to know.


4.You introvert nature will leave lonely if you don't overcome it. Try an exercise of giving a complement to a girl everyday and see how much response you get. Talk to those who respond you aren't working for world fame here.


5.Seems like your response here is just about normal. I carried 21 hours to finish out my degree my last year. It's called self preservation. Too much is too much do your 17 hours and do the best you can. The rewards will be greater later. To many activities just twist some people in knots.


6.If you are really interested you will wait. It sounds like you aren't sure you want to wait for her If so take the suggestion above and test the waters.


7.Sounds like this girl is not interested so, move on.


8.Take German only if you really want to I don't think that is going to influence the girl. It sounds like she just wants to be friends.


9.It is good you have a received a good influence from her. Give the same in return and don't expect to much. G. K. Chesterton, past president of Columbia Bible College said something like, “Young man it's been said that puppy love is real to the puppies but, you get married on puppy love and you'll live a dog's life the rest of your life.”


10.God doesn't give us the immediate meaning of things in our life. He just asks us to endure to the end. To rest in Him and his purposes. It will end the way it ends my advice would be back off. I cor 5:25Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men.


26 For consider your calling, brethren, that there are not many wise according to flesh, not many powerful, not many high-born.


27 But God has chosen the foolish things of the world, that he may put to shame the wise; and God has chosen the weak things of the world, that he may put to shame the strong things;


28 and the ignoble things of the world, and the despised, has God chosen, and things that are not, that he may annul the things that are;


11. Just rest in your circumstances and know that God is in control. If you want control then God cannot be in control. You don't get it both ways.


27 But he who searches the hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because he intercedes for saints according to God.


28 But we *do* know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to purpose.


29 ¶ Because whom he has foreknown, he has also predestinated to be conformed to the image of his Son, so that he should be the firstborn among many brethren.


30 But whom he has predestinated, these also he has called; and whom he has called, these also he has justified; but whom he has justified, these also he has glorified.





12. I think your friend is right. Let it flow.


13. Sometimes things don't fall in neatly but, but remember they don't just fall. They may not seem neat to us but, if God is in charge it is according to His will and His purposes and it can be he doesn't even want us married because His will is wiser than ours and He knows us better than ourselves.


14. Rest, wait let things fall into place. You are not allowing enough time she is a wise girl to wait.


15. Just wait on her she needs time and time is what you don't seem willing to give.