Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Advice needed on this girl badly! Thanks?

Well me and this girl (x) were both very good friends. Now one day i blamed here for something without thinking. This was because one of her best friends who does not know me told me what she thought was the truth. Well i believed her as i do not think someone would really lie about their best friend to someone they do not know. Anyway so i asked X and she became angry. I did not tell her that I said all of that based on HER best friend's judgement


She forgave me in a few days but I still was not sure about it and every few months i would get clues that she was lying to me. I was hurt but left it aside. Now when ever she gets upset with me she blames it on this incident. It has been like 9 months now.


Now i am getting fed up with her and after i get back to uni i am not going to talk to her. I have on several ooccasionswanted to talk to her about what is going on between us but every time she ignored me.


I just have a problem. It is not easy for me to ignore her as she lives with a girl who is my best friend(y). Y has told me to ignore X from now on as she also does not think that X is all that good a friend and that in the last 1 year she has changed a lot. Btw Y is a very sweet girl and she will not do anything to break up my friendship with X. In fact i think Y tried to help a few months back and as a result X does not like Y as much any more.


Now what should i do? We have a lot of common friends and I am going to see her whether i like it or not. What is the best way to act around her so that i can still be in good terms with her friends but ignore her as much as i can.


We are all around 21 here btw.





I have noticed that i have apologied nearly every time. She never has.Advice needed on this girl badly! Thanks?
ok shes a *****. drink beer and quit crying about it keep your friend and to hell with her

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