Please...advice here on a girl (I'm in way over my head here)?

I met this girl here at my university that I like and she really likes me.





My experience so far in these matters is pretty much nil-I've never had a girl and I've never actually kissed a girl before I kissed her last week.





And then I began to question her later about how far she'd gone in her life(she's had 1 or 2 bf's) and she did tell me she's had sex before, but then she looked at me and started crying a lot telling me she wasn't a whore or anything and she was very sorry she didn't tell me because the fact that I found out she was not a virign probably disturbed me. To me it didn't seem like a faked act- she genuinely cried her eyes out and she really does like me.





I mean, if I continue this relationship, I would definitely feel threatened by her experience and my lack of.





And whether it's b/c of my lack-of-experience-love-life and for lack of a better term-';innocence';....I did feel pretty disturbed when I found out she was not a virgin- I mean she dresses totally respectable, she's a really smart girl, she's cute, and she's funny.





If you think I'm disturbed b/c I might have slept with her later on in the future and discovered that she wasn't a virgin, I'm not- I probably wouldn't have had sex with the first girl I kissed, but you know that anything can happen in those moments.











I'm just really confused and torn up over this-my friend tells me to to leave her be and move on (his reasoning is ';she's a **** who just wants to corrupt me';).





Problem is I really like the girl and she does like me, I'm just very messed up and I think I'm in too deep here and I will have no idea what's going on...





Should I work it out with her or just end the relationship???


Please...advice here on a girl (I'm in way over my head here)?
Calm Down - where I come from some girls have had abortions before 15, so she's definately got the right attitude by comparison and she is definately NOT a ****, by definition a **** will sleep with pretty much anything in trousers and may get through up to 50 partners a year (one each week) so 2, at most is really good going, it shows she thought about the who carefully before getting involved, and thats a sign of maturity.Your both about 17/18 I guess.





Why dont you come clean and just mention casually that you feel a bit intimidated by her experience (in a ' I dont want to be a let down/not as good as your exes' way), hopefully she should understand that, and will probably respect your honesty (if she IS a smart girl she will)





Ref. your 'mate' giving you advice - he doesnt share your taste in girls does he????? just a thought.Please...advice here on a girl (I'm in way over my head here)?
i say that you should keep her. it might not even be her fault. she could have had a controlling boyfriend. besides, she can teach you how to kiss and help you from her knowledge. good luck
You are going to meet a lot of girls with more experience than you. I would say get over this issue and move on with this chick.
WORK IT OUT!!!