Need some advice about dating a girl who has been in an abusive relationship?

How could the guy prove or show her that he will not beat her or be abusive towards her like her ex. I know it's hard for a girl like that to trust, but say that we both have feelings for each other, but it seems impossible at the moment, because she thinks it'll happen again. We have both had some long talks about the situation, and she keeps avoiding it and saying she doesn't know if she could trust another guy for a long time. The thing is we have both known each other for 3 years and she has seen me get angry and lose my cool, but i don't want her to think i would be like that with her, cos i wouldn't. I have never, and wouldn't ever hit a girl. So how do i go about things?Need some advice about dating a girl who has been in an abusive relationship?
You just have to be patient and show her you understand that she's been through a lot and obviously her trust and confidence has taken a battering too. Show her that you care for her by being there for her and not pushing her. In time it'll make her see that you're different and not going to treat her badly.Need some advice about dating a girl who has been in an abusive relationship?
you need to show her that she can trust you thats all it migh take some time but she has obvisly been in a bad relation she dont show any abbuse she needs to feel in a confortable safe place and protected when arround you xoxoxo
tell her that u wuld never hurt her and u will always be their 4 her...


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The best thing you can do is prove your trustworthiness to her. If you are looking for a quick fix in this situation, you're not gonna find it. Trust takes time and more importantly a choice on her part. A choice that you cannot and must not demand. The more you do, the less she will trust. Anyone can be trustworthy once. If your feelings for her are strong enough they will carry you through the difficult times (and there will be some difficult times). Be trustworthy and above reproach in every way that you can. If, eventually you find her standards to be too high (and often they will be) then it is best to either suggest couple's counseling or move on.





Can you answer my question too. Apparently it's not very interesting lol.