i no this girl for a long time and i taked to her like a long time ago and ive seen her in camp but i never tak 2 her but then i found out she has a facebook account so i taked to her and it seemed like she didnt want me around so she deleted me from her friends list and asked her y (online) and then i asked her am i annoying u she sed yah so i sed ok sorry watever bye and im wondering if i shud go after her or just get over her please help i really like herAny advice i like this girl?
i can understand ur feeling very well...look,if u really really like the girl then dont leave her .see i know ur faults.u said u didnt talk to her for a long time and then suddenly u pop out in her facebook account. it wud definitely bother any girl!! well the problem is that she doesnt kno much bout u and ur kinda starnger for her so definitely she will be annoyed when u start talkin to her ONLINE!! girls dont like shy or sneaky boys!! u didnt talk to her for a long time cauz u wer shy and then u start talkin online!! i kno even shy guys are bold online but tht is what the gals dont like.u shud hav started talking in person first and then there was no need for facebook account etc.we'll ive listen ur mistakes above but now m gonna list the tips to get her now(though its very difficult now cauz u alrealy blew it up(almost):--
1.first let this thing cool off for a while and then start making ur presence know to her and try to impress her BUT FROM AFAR!! do things that wud catch her attention and impress her.
2.dont go with the things everyone does to get an impression,find out what she likes or wat turns her on.then do all that from far (not involving or bothering her). but this shud hav such a big impact that she notices it and it'll get her notice then she is bound ot be impressed.
3.BE URSELF!!! dont try to be sumone else in front of her. this will not impress her rather it'll ruin ur chances. eg. if u try to be very cool in front of her u will rather end up being a jerk in her sight.
4.watch ur behaviour while ur around her.dont be nervous be confident and give her no more importance than u r giving the others around.
5.after uve used the above steps for quite a long time (about 1 month) then u can be assured that she is starting to develop a positive image of urs in her mind. now u can start with the confident eye contact. whenevr u pass by just make an eye contact but only a short one and then turn away. after a while u can accompany the eye contact with a smile. NOw,the day u get a smile back from her is the right time for moving ahead and u proceed to the next step(6th step)
6.find excuses to talk to her .now u can say sumthin gud bout her clothes when u pass by and talk or comment on other stuff like that, then move on to longer conversations.AS i said earlier FIND EXCUSES.Like ask for her help on sumthin like homework,or sumthin she is gud at. now u must be knowing what she is gud at since i told u the first thing to do is to know everything bout her.
7.now after than when u start to feel that u both r gud friends then u can start on with the deeper(romantic) conversations and start a bit of gentle flirting to hint her about ur feelings.when u get positive signals i.e when she starts to reply to ur 'flirting' then its the right time to ask her out. then after that ur almost done. its usually better and even the best in most cases to take her to a place which is lonely like a lonely park etc. where u 2 are alone and theres no one to disturb u. this is the best time to talk to her about ur feeling for her and tell her how much u like her. i assure u my friend that her reply will surey be positive.Any advice i like this girl?
save some dignity and get over her. sounds like for whatever reason she doesnt wana talk, sorry dude might not have been what you wanted to hear but i think you should just leave it now and go after someone else. doesnt always work out.
ignore her, do u want to be with someone who does not care for you?
get over her!! ur too good for this spoiled uptite gurl!!!
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