you're a full time working girl! all you need is some more confidence and a push in the right direction. with all the dating sites out there it can seem utterly frightening because you aren't sure if people are who they say they are and you don't want to end up with someone who is a complete waste of your time. so start small and ask your close net of friends. they might suggest some fun and interesting place to meet local guys that are dating material. if you are a member of some kind of workout class get to know some of the people there. you have to get out there and be persistant. and if you have exhausted your options then(if you feel comfortable) try an online site for locals in your area(last resort only!)...
you don't have to take a refresher course or anything on dating just be confident, and go for it. you might snag a really great guy.
Good Luck and Have Fun with It!!!Help! Any advice to help a girl who hasn't been asked out on a date in 3 years?
maybe u put a vibe off that u dont want nebody or guys think ur intimidating, idk?
I would just tell the people that you would like to ask you out that you think that you should hang out sometime. I think that is a good way to let them know that you would like to go out without asking them out and laying yourself on the line.
I think you will be fine. Just find some time to get out in the social life and make a small move. Don't go all out and put yourself on the line, just make some decent hints.
You can take part in activities or classes that you are interested with. This is the best way to widen your social circle.
Networking unfortunetly takes time. Good call on avoiding the dating sites, i've always thought they were complete garbage. Also having worked in bars for years, that isn't a great place either. Although it is social, and it beats sitting at home. You could always do the asking too. I've seen a shift over the past few years. Women are definetly becoming more comfortable with being the one to make the first move.
screw those sites! Meet some in real life! You dont feel comfortable?! Stop wasteing time of your own and others!
Ahmm eye ball those you are interested more, regardless in public or any where or any time.
How high is your date-able standard? How many have you over-looked? I dont know, I ask so you will go on and ask your-self.
Go to the pub or club and talk/eye ball to random single who can speak with sense and behave make you comfortable.
mingle with your friends, friends. You might just find a guy you like, and ask a guy out once in a while. Us women can ask guys out too you know.
meet some new friends and have them hook u up
u need to be involved in activities which will expose you to a larger social circle. trust me u will come across someone interesting {}
Don't wait for other people to ask you out- ask them! Seriously, the world is full of ';dateable'; people, you just have to get to know them. Keep your radar up, even at work, and if anyone sparks your interest at all, ask them out for coffee or something. You're not asking them to marry you or anything- it's just chance to get to know someone new- someone who might turn out to be dateable after all.
well its not your fault you might not have found someone
just go on with your life and the right person to spend the rest of your life with and it doest hurt to go to church there are always good guys and they are single people that have stuff all the time
well if you dont have time to go out to places to find decent men then you dont have alot of choice but to join a website. Hot or not .. is pretty fun... and when i use to be on it .. didnt get many crazies lk the other sites ... .. just to give you some options .. if you havent dated in 3 years you need to try something different and new you might suprise yourself
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