I need advice on letting this girl know that i'm in love with her and that i want to be more than just friends?

im like 75% sure this girl likes me back, and i think she is waiting 2 c if i will make a move....





long story:


i saw her at a sweet sixteen and after a few hours i finally got the balls to ask her to dance, she said yes and we danced one song but right after that we sat back down, then a few weeks after that i found out she goes to my high school...then out of the blue we become like friends through her older brother....one day she asks me if she and her freinds can come over to my house and hangout, i hesistated but said sure it was ok, her friends ended up being her older sister, her older brother, the borthers girlfriend, and a best friend....so any ways, the sister, the bff, and the bor's gf are like asking me all these questions like ex(bday, age, grade level, if i drink or anything, do i play videogames, can i drive, sports, what my fave teams are, wh o my friends are, where we hangout @ lunch, we do besides eat @ lunch, what i do over the summer, if i go out a lot with friends (parites included) they askd to c my fone and they messed around with it, idk what they were doing, askd bout my grades etc...basically and interrogation...then the girl i like is up front and sks me if i have a girl friend and if i've ever had a girl friend, and if there are any girls i like @ school, and what my classes are and in which period they are in....i answered honestly to the barrage of questions and when i told her i've i didn't have a girlfriend all 4 girl just kinda lookd at eachother smiling and laughing. then recently i saw her and her siblings at another party and i when i saw her alone i finally got the balls to walk over and talk to her, to my surprise it flowed and i made her laugh a little then she randomly asked her for my myspace, we exchanged and then i asked her if she ever wanted to go to the movies, but because i barely knew her i offered that she could bring her siblings and her freind, (this way i could get to know her better safely and not risk screwing up and her knowing before i was ready to tell her i like her) she didn't hesistate, she could've said no, or that she was busy, or some lame excuse like that, but no, she said sure, and that whenever i wanted to go to just call her, so being offered this i didn't think twice and asked her for her fone number, we exchanged...and ever since then we message alot on myspace


NOW THE QUESTION IS: im thinking of offering to go to the movies this week, and i want to let her know my feeling for her, but i don't know of a way to say it and i need your help....i want to drop hints while we are watching the movie, what are some good hints?I need advice on letting this girl know that i'm in love with her and that i want to be more than just friends?
Please listen to this carefully.





***DO NOT TELL HER YOU LIKE HER!!***





When you tell a girl how you feel, chances are she will either A) lose interest in you or B) walk all over you. She probably won't do those things on purpose, but psychologically when she knows that you are a ';sure thing';, she won't bother to work for your attention anymore. She won't flirt with you, she won't make an effort with her looks, she won't call you, nothing. Because she knows the way you feel about her will make you do all the work.





Now, instead of telling her, you must SHOW her, using actions rather than words. She already thinks you might like her, otherwise you wouldn't have asked her out. She seems really interested in you. In order to show her that you're attracted to her, you have to be flirty, and see how she responds. Make her laugh, be charming, play-fight a little, tease her. Don't go overboard with compliments though.





What you need to understand is that in order to keep a girl's interest, you must keep her guessing. Instead letting her KNOW that you like her, make her WONDER. That means that you'll be in her thoughts much more than if you just told her straight up how you felt.





You basically have to make her care whether you like her or not. The 'hints' you're talking about should be for the most part non-verbal. Find little ways to touch her - physical contact is a great way of seeing if you have a spark.





Once you've gone on a couple of dates, then ask her to be your girlfriend, if you want. Then you can talk about your feelings all you want - but I must stress that verbalising your emotions when you're not even dating, will ultimately lead to results A) and B) in my first paragraph, in the majority of cases.





Oh and sorry for my caps attack, it's hard to emphasise things in less shouty ways when you can't bold or italicise.