Thursday, August 19, 2010

Some advice for a sensitive girl /:?

what can i do to keep myself from liking someone TOO much before i'm sure of how things will work out? im trying to keep my cool, usually the first few dates i feel like IM in control because if we click cool....and if we don't, no biggie. but once i decide i like someone, all the sudden i become anxious. im less relaxed and feel more vulnerable. unfortunately i'm not even 100% sure if we're right for each other, but for right now...i just want someone to care for and who cares back. they don't have to be perfect, i've just never had that before and i want to know how it feels. im just getting involved with a guy right now, at first i wasn't as into him, but i've come to like him and i'm worried that for SOME reason he's going to decide it's not right. the last time i saw him we watched a movie and then cuddled in his bed and had a really nice night....the following night he sent me a text saying 'wish you were here tonight'; unfortunately i didn't see it till 3am and had to wait till the next morning to respond (hopefully didn't give him the wrong impression) then christmas came and it's been a week and a half since that night. im supposed to see him tuesday, but the gap in time was so large i remember feeling really warm and fuzzy with him that night but worry that he's lost interest or still doesn't know if i'm right for him? idk, i just don't want to get hurt. i need some kind of advice.Some advice for a sensitive girl /:?
Just go with the flow but give yourself about 10 requirements they must meet within 3 - 6 months of dating to ensure they meet the standard. That way you can protect yourself. I think you are just honest with your own feelings and get carried away with the way someone seems to be, your new requirements will help you see the men from the boys.Some advice for a sensitive girl /:?
Keep your heart strong for awhile... at least for over a year like I did, if things STILL goes well than just take down the walls that's protecting your heart and let him in, sure at this moment show him you're very interest in him and all, keep loving the guy, just don't think you will keep him forever just YET, have that in your mind when you've have been with him for a year (its most likely will end up being together forever) At least that happen with my gf and I (for 4 years, plan to get married and have kids).

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