Thursday, August 19, 2010

NEED ADVICE ASAP ABOUT THIS GIRL I LIKE SOO MUCH?

Well pretty much have we talked on the phone for the past 3-4 months everyday, out of every guy she talks to ... she talks to me the most since she told me that, two days ago I told her how I feel and how I like her a lot.. and the thing is she told me a month ago that she wanted to try being more than friends.





but when I told her how I felt.. she told me cause this other guy said that he likes her, she doesn't like hurting or choosing, the drama cause she knows what it feels like to be hurt (she has been single for over a year now and her really hurt cuz he broke up with her for another girl and this guy that told her he likes her, she use to like but she stuff like he turned into an asshole and its like he doesn't give up) .. basically she said that wants to cool things down , I even said to her I know theres something there... Its not that I am not moving to fast or anything,When we talked about she did say she is confused and doesn't know she what wants. but I feel like I should be her friend and in the next couple of months tell her again.. I really like this girl alot and i want to be with her.





Even after this.. I called her the next in the afternoon, then she called me in the evening and she just recently texted me sayin ';whats up'; I don't know if she just testing me to see if I will still talk to her or maybe she does like me and doesn't want to hurt the other guy...





we just finshed texting and I ended with a '; hope u get a good mark on your essay and your probably at work so I will talk to you later ?... then she reply with '; Yea, I'll call you later';....., then she called me and said she was gonna call later but she decided to call now and she said a the end she will call me later tonight... WHY DOES SHE WANT TO CALL ME ? THIS IS MAKING NO SENSE TOO ME!!NEED ADVICE ASAP ABOUT THIS GIRL I LIKE SOO MUCH?
she wants to call you because she wants to be around you and wants to talk to you. she wants your support while she's confused, and just to know that whether she chooses you or not, she'll still have you as a good friend. to me, it sounds like she's leaning towards you, just because how comfortable she is talking to you, and how much she wants to talk to you. i would just talk to her, make sure she knows that if she's got a problem you're there for her, and you care about her. that's all you can do, girls can take quite a while to come out of confusion on guys.NEED ADVICE ASAP ABOUT THIS GIRL I LIKE SOO MUCH?
tell her how you feel well you already did you should ask her out and if she turns you down then you should stop giving her so much attention stop callin her eveeryday and trust me if she really does like you ans wants to be wit you she will come back to you and shell wanna go out with you then.hope everythin works out the best for you(:
I found the following quotes to help me write my letter...“Psychoanalysis shows the human infant as the passive recipient of love, unable to bear hostility. Development is the learning to love actively and to bear rejection.”








Every rejection is incremental payment on your dues that in some way will be translated back into your work.


James Lee Burke





“I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have – life itself.”

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