Okay, I’m at university and there is this girl I fancy like mad in my student accommodation. I talk to her whenever I see her and she’s incredibly friendly. Im not sure whether I’ve just not come on strong enough and have just tried to keep it too friendly so far. So this has been going on for like the last 6 months. And with “encouragement” from my house mates I asked her out for coffee. She had an exam the next day and told me to facebook her. So I did and Nothing, nor reply, zilch L I just guessed that she had blown me off, so tried to forget about her over the holidays. When we get back I see her again expecting maybe an embarrassing nod and not to even speak – but it was the opposite, she was asking me how I’d been, how we should all (im guessing this includes my housemates) should go out for a picnic sometime and we just kept chatting like nothing had even happened. She always speaks to me when I see her, hugs me whenever we meet and ‘friendly’ kiss in clubs when we’ve seen each other. This is such a problem for me!! Exams are coming up and I just cant stop thinking about her. And now I’ve heard she’s gotten back with her ex-boyfriend, literally a couple of days ago from back home, her friends had warned me it had been a bad break-up and that she needed space, but 2 months later they’re back on. Should I just keep being friends or should tell her exactly how I feel?Need advice about this amazing girl I've fallen for at uni, but dont know what to do!?
I think she just sees you as a friend i.e. she didn't understand the coffee to be a date. I don't think you should tell her the whole lot as she's probably not thinking about you that way and it would make her uncomfortable. Try asking her on a more definite date. She likes you as a friend so she might be interested, or she might not at the moment, or even at all. But at least you'll know and you can get on with studying. Good luck
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