Need advice about that special girl please? ten points?

so heres the deal. I'm at a loss of what to do. I found this one girl and she just makes me smile and so happy. I haven't felt this way about anyone for such a long time, i am only 20 but i am past just dating, i want to find my special princess and give her everything i have and my whole heart. She's not like any other girl i met before.


i met her through posting an add for my duplex, and she was planning on moving in, but yesterday we hung out and had a great time, but now she says she is got to think about it, she has a boyfriend but often complains about him and they dont see eachother much and it just honestly sounds like he does not care about her that much, i think she's afraid that if she does move in she might start having feelings for me and i think she wouldnt mind that but wouldnt' know what to do about her boyfriend.


So any advice on what i can do, some say lay back and hope for the best , but what about the sayings that if you find something you want in life or that you care about you should grasp it with both hands and never let go? which should i do? She means a lot to me, i care about her and no other girl could make me feel this way, i have been through so many shallow girls and this girl is just amazing, she makes me smile and feel on top of the world, like a piece of heaven i dont want to lose? any advice please. I dont want to give her up.Need advice about that special girl please? ten points?
It's easy to grasp onto general sayings like ';never give up'; and ';give it all you've got'; without actually thinking about them in-depth. You have to look at them on a case by case basis. You know what doing everything you can in this situation means? Holding yourself back and playing it cool - that is, not rushing. People are all so often willing to do so much for someone or something they really want, but wait. Time is just this huge annoyance for people, mainly because it's something we can't control in the slightest.





Hold yourself back, and let her sort herself out first. If she's not meant to be with her current partner, they'll break up at some point. There's no reason to make her feel worse and agitate it further. If she moves in, great - be friendly, chat with her, even flirt a bit - but definitely don't push too hard, and don't rush.





Just give it time and don't be too forceful. It sounds like your emotions are feeling pretty intense, so think about picking up a new physical past time such as abseiling (not the most common pick, but trust me, it's a great thrill) to focus your mind on something else during the week.





And remember - there are 7 billion people in the world. I doubt you know all ~3 billion females. Chances are there are plenty of other women who would make you feel this good. If, heaven forbid, this weren't to work out, remember that there's always hope. Good luck in this endeavor though! ^_^Need advice about that special girl please? ten points?
Tell her how you feel...
dont give her up.


tell her how you feel...girls appreciate when guys let them into their thoughts. and then ask her how she feels about you.


if she feels the same way....you need to give her sometime to figure things out because that would mean she would have to choose the boyfriend or you. and thats a hard decison.


hopefully she will pick you....goodluck :)