Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Advice on getting the girl?

alright i'm always embarassed to ask personal questions on yahoo so bear with me here.





I'm a sophomore in high school, seriously into bodybuilding. I want to compete in two years if all goes well (not huge uber-steroids, i only weigh 136 and i'm 5'8';, both in the average region for my age).


for those interested here's my bodybuilding profile pictures stats and whatnot: http://bodyspace.bodybuilding.com/BredFr鈥?/a>





but that's not the point...





there's this girl...





i don't know what it is about her, she's really quiet and shy, but i've been hanging with her friends a lot and gotten to be around her a good amount... and all the ';guyness'; drains out of me, like i don't wanna bang her and brag about it in the locker room like normal guy instincts say, i want to get to know her better.





so i talked to a guy who knows her pretty well, he's dating one of her friends.





the guy says ';yeah she'd be into you, oh but DONT let her know about bodybuilding or powerlifting or anything. if she thinks your a jock you're done.';





so i'm talking with her and her friends, and things are going fine, when a group of freshman ';fans'; come up. and they do the typical guy thing... ';YO! ITS HIM! Yo man flex for us! please man!';





and at first i was like ';what? what are you talking about?'; trying to give them a hint, but they kept going on like ';dude come on, you're like the most ripped guy in school you lift like a gazillion pounds more than you weight';, all sorts of stuff that'd normally flatter me, but this time ruined it.





she kinda looked away awkwardly until they left, then she was quiet the whole time and didn't have much to say whenever i said something.





what do i do???Advice on getting the girl?
she won't like you.


get over it and leave her aloneAdvice on getting the girl?
dude just tell her straight out girls dont like liars lieing will come back to bite u in the a** be like listen *cindy* idk her name lol..im into lifting weights and i run track, but i dont do it to impress people i do it for me..it makes me feel good and i hope u dont mind that, and well the truth is i really like you, i want to get to know you and maybe just maybe we could get together this weekend just me u and some good food at *chilis* or wherever





girls like honesty not sketchiness and if this girl doesnt like guys who like to lift and well u do track i mean..dont act like the jock ideal act like u be caring tell her what u feel if she dont like u BECAUSE u lift weights..that's not the right girl for u all i gotta say i know it may be hard to face that but u never know till u try right better to tell her now and see how it goes then lie and have her find out later..my g/f loves that i lift i didnt tell her for a few months then she noticed and was like oh wow that's hot lol








yeah dude def interested sounds cool just last nite i went on here for like 10mins and then went to bed i was tired..with my g/f and well yeahh lol

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