Advice needed about a girl i like?

Good morning everybody! Here's a brief outline to my dilemma :





I'm a 24 year old male from London, England. I really like a girl. We get on like a house on fire, we're always laughing and joking and we spend loads of time together. We flirt with each other constantly and we're both single.





The problem is that her ex boyfriend really wants her back and has even attempted suicide to get what he wants. She told me she doesn't love him any more but I heard her talking to him on her mobile and it seems like there's something still there.





Some days I think she likes me and wants to be with me and other days she seems like she doesn't.





I'm thinking about backing off and giving her space but I'm not sure what would be the best thing to do. if I back off will she think I'm not interested?





Please can girls answer this question and let me know what they would want in this situation. Advice needed about a girl i like?
you should ask her out, thats what i would in this situation, if you give her space then it may seem like you are not interested :D you should ask her out, i mean, what do you have to lose :D email me if yhoo need any more help :DAdvice needed about a girl i like?
If you stay her friend for awhile you'll find more clues if she likes you or him. Just give it time.
you will never know if u dont try!


and, the worst thing that happens si she says no... then you know exactly were u stand and if she says yes :)


im a girl and if it was me i would want u to ask :)


and also, if u bak off, u may not have the chance again!





good luck :)
no no no dont back off!!! you need to continue in the direction which has already begun, keep flirting and enjoying each others company. Remain a good friend to her and continue trying to build on that friendship.





That guy had his chance! It didnt work and now he is just a part of her past who is desperatly trying to hang on but eventually the further you move into her life, the further away he will become! and that is the best thing for that girl also, becoz someone who attemps suicide to get their own way has serious issues and cannot be in a healthy relationship with this girl.





If you like this girl, I think she is worth it! Hang in there and even tho it seems like some days she's not so keen, dont worry, just focus on thinking positive and being there for her!





Good Luck
Hurry up and ask her out!
just tell her how you feel
just carry on as you have been like friendly flirting and then when you know that she is definitely over her ex and definitely ready for a relationship ask her out.. this ex is really something strange so im guessing shell be over him soon enough :)





good luck :)






Mate don't back off, the ex is a douche. If you back off and they get together it's game over for you. Also you'll regret it (the old what if.. factor)
I don't think backing off would be a good idea just keep things the way they are, if you're just friends, there's no sense in stopping a friendship because you don' t know what she wants, you have to put it out there and give her the option and then if things don't work out the way you plan maybe then you can think about backing off.. She will figure out what she wants eventually so good luck and i hope it's you!
Honesty is always the best policy! If you get on like you say you do then you should sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and ask her what she wants. Be there to support her. Communication is the key!
She might be playing hard to get. Don't give up on her, if you do it will make her feel as if you're..well just giving up on her. Don't be too clingy or invade her 'personal bubble' because that will just annoy her and put her off you.


Show her how caring, supportive, romantic, basically anything that is thoughtful you are. That will show her that she needs to be with a sensible guy that can handle his feelings and not trying to kill himself...





I'm sorry that this isn't much help, but I'm only 13, so I don't have much experience with relationships...just kinda picked it up from everyone else I guess. Hope I've helped the tiniest bit!





Good Luck


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