I really really like this girl, and need some good advice, please help.?

She's 13, im 15. She used to be all over me, well people started talkin about it, I kinda rushed her, and just different things happend, and now she seems she dont like me at all. She told her friends she has no feelings for me at all. But she told her mom that she is just scared, and I know her mom wouldnt lie to me. Her mom also said that if I really really like somone else, then i should go for it. But if I really really like her daughter, than i should be patient. I mean we barely barely even talk anymore, whats the deal?








I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??





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But she seems to like me sometimes, like the way she looks at me, or she seems nervous, but other times, it seems like she dont care





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12 hours ago


I mean it is so hard to move on, especially since i dont know for sure, if she has feelings for me or not. I mean i love everything about her. The way she smiles, her eyes, the way she laughs, everything about her is perfect. I feel so strongly toward her, way more than anyone else.





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And it's not like her mom said i dont have a chance. She said if a different girl really grabs my eye, one that I really reall like, then i should go for it. But if No one duz, and I am willing to wait for her daughter then i should contuinue to pursue it.I really really like this girl, and need some good advice, please help.?
if you like her that much then, you should ask her out for coffee. you don't want to say ';a date'; because it will just make you look like you like her. let her decide if it is a date.I really really like this girl, and need some good advice, please help.?
i think you should ask her again. if she liked you before she's always gonna have some type of feeling about you. just be patient like her mom said and ask her when you think the time is right. and try not to be nervous when you ask her.

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OK...if you really like her, then YOU need to tell her, and give her an option, tell her you want to be with her, and if she cares then she will agree, send her some flowers or something simple and just write, ';lets talk'; or '; I miss you'; anything to get her attention - better yet...send her this post..she would love that! Bottom line - give her the choice so that you're not left wondering what could have been if you had just said something!
Women that age are really fickle sorry to say. I would give her time and let her know that I'm interested and that I'm waiting for her but at the same time, I'd keep my eyes open for something new, so if she doesn't come around, I wont feel like I totally wasted my time.
dude don't worry, just talk to her and express those feelings no matter how hard, maybe that way you will also find out her feelings. there is no harm in being curious, what could you lose?
Awww...you're so sweet. If you hurt her, she is going to be wary of you, so if you ask her out again, expect that she will reject you.


Yet if you persist, she might come around. Just don't be to stalkerish. Start as a friend, but be sweet.
well plain in simple get her by her self and look into her eyes in tell her u need to know were this relationship is going and if she even wants to continue dateing you, but before that tell her how u feel about her and things will go from there(meaning you will know where u two are relationship wise from that point),and if she doesnt express herself like u think she shouldve then give her some air and if its meant she will come back,but dont let her see u with any other girls because that will only confuse things(her)!
Just be yourself and start slow. You start the conversation. Give her some time to feel comfortable. And in the mean time, go on about your business and don't worry about it.
Okay, if you really like her like you say you do, be as honest about your feelings to her as you are to her mom. You should be talking to the girl. I know guys tend to want to butter up the mom, but in this case, it's really the girl you should be reassuring.





Get her alone, away from her friends, and tell her how you really feel. Here's the catch; you can't come on too strong. Just tell her that you know things happened and you're not really sure where things went wrong between the two of you bur you're really sorry that it happened. Tell her that things were off to a great start and that if she is willing to give you another chance you promise not to rush things this time. You're willing to move at her pace because you really want the relationship to work.





You can tell her you're fond of or like everything about her, but if she told her mom she's scared (and please, please don't tell her verbatim what your mom said she was worried about to try to reassure her. It'll seem like you were prying and she'll feel smothered from the get go) I would hold off on saying you love everything about her for a while. You're 13 and 15. Just remember not to take things too seriously and she will be so much more comfortable. You have all the time in the world to get serious.





I hope it works out for you, but the best advice I can possibly give you is to take it slow and just enjoy each other's company. You can't force a relationship to work. If you're honest but have realistic expectations you will at least be gaining her friendship and trust back. And that is an excellent place to start...
well talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. tell her that she doesnt have to go out with you but you miss her. if she still likes you she will prolly come baq to u. if not, at least she knows and you got that outa your system.
well hunny me being 13 i know u can't get over someone right away i still am falling for some one for like 7 months he knows and he's even had a gf inbetween and i still haven't let go. i think she prob still likes you. go for her and ask her out!! if she says yes then don't rush her no matter what any one says but her!! if u rush someone at a fragile age like this then she will flip you in a second. and ur an older guy so what girl doesn't like a guy thats a few years older!!! if she says no then ask y and what u can do to have her like you. thankfully for u her mom obviously likes u and has no problem with you. don't mess it up. u hurt her baby and she will not like u and might even ban u from the house or worse her daughter


Good luck xoxo
Listen to me, get her ALONE and tell her how u feel. DONT listen to her immature friends(she's probably not telling them the whole truth), and go for what u want! When u pull her aside by herself, in person, u can read her eyes, her body language, how can she lie to u about how she feels then?! Go STRAIGHT to the source, dont be scared, and end the confusion. Do u want another guy to get her when u coulda had a chance, .............hurry now
Its always when u cant get something that you feel so much for it but when you gotten it, its a diff thingy! ppl of your age probably just a crush too.
#1- Quit talking to her mom! The poor girl probably feels trapped and pressured. She is only thirteen, you are only fifteen, Chill! Leave her alone for a while, but, don't ignore her. If she really likes you, she will come back. And don't go at it so hot and heavy next time.
Your both very young. I think her mothers right you just need to be patient with her. Does she know how much you care about her? Maybe you could just be content with that for now. She is only thirteen. Give her time to grow up a little. Im sorry your so tore up about this.

Facebook advice on impressing a girl.?

i go to an only boys school (no im not gay) but there is a sister skool which our school had a quiz with last week. I was on a table with 4 girls, and i had 2 friends beside me. I got 2 girls' facebook as friends but i want to know how to imprss them.





I tried impressing one with help from other sites but she didnt seem interested in me. Im only 13 and i want to try impressing the other and i need help, i dont know what to say i sent her a message yesterday saying hi and stuff. I got her msn but she doesnt come on alot, the other who isnt interested in me does come on but i am not confident to talking with her because i kno i will bore her.





I hav ha no experience with girls except my relatives, and i get nervous even when i talk to them. I lack ALOT of confidence.





how should i reply and start a long impressive conversation with her, get to know her and that sort. Should I comment on her photos or will i end up being laughed at by her friends.Facebook advice on impressing a girl.?
start a convo like '; hey whats upp ?'; and mention something funny that happened when you met her to start the conversation.


and take a risk comment on a few of her pics but not all of them you'll sound like a stalker or seem desperate. just pick one and say something like ';you look pretty here'; or something but dont go overboard


well GOOD LUCKFacebook advice on impressing a girl.?
crawl out from under your rock

I like a girl in my school any advice?

there this girl i like at school she is really cute i really like her i never talked to her but always thought about it it really want to go out with her any adviceI like a girl in my school any advice?
the best way is to confront her. not your friend, not her friend, not a note...YOU physically step in front of her and open your mouth and TALK. simplest thing: ask her on a date! movies are always the best first date (i recommend comedy, action, or drama. not romance; to awkward). that way you just have to sit and watch, and not worry about what you're wearing and how to answer questions and stuff. good luck hun ;DI like a girl in my school any advice?
get a girl as a friend, she could ask the girl what she thinks of you(:


then you could also, text, facebook or IM her? right.isnt that easier


and i would talk to her before you ask her out.cause if someone


asked me out and i barley knew them i would think that they would


be stalking me so.talk to her, or get someone to talk to her for you
If your a shy person and not used to talking to girls your probably look like a fool. My advice is to practice talking to other girls, or something to get you practice, IF your a shy person. Otherwise, I suggest you try to be friends with her at first. Maybe join a class she's in or something. Be patient. Good luck my friend.
first, i would actually talk to her. Get her to know you, and become friends. that will help her warm up to you. have a good personality so then she may start to like you. But dont be mean to her in front of your friends, and dont be mean to her friends. Girls Hate that. GOOD LUCK!
I have the same problem but with a Boy i like and my friend like him too...


he's in like 2 of my classes i think, but with your sitchuation would suggest just talking to her to get to know her..
i think you should go up t her and start up a little conversation. then tell her how you feel. but you should get to know her first b4 you take it further.





hoped i have helped
theres this guy i like and he knoews and he was sacred to make a move so i just went up and t5laked to him turns out it ws really easy,


go for it


good luck babe
definately talk to her. she could be thinking the same thing about you and just to afraid to approach you. if you really like her, its a worth a shot right?
yeah dude just give her a note or give it to her friend to give to her and say blah blah I like you your gorgeous can i get your number, or facebook even i mean everyone bloody has one these days
greatest advice is to talk to her because otherwise it would be really akward
go up to her

Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 weeks and 4 days hah. i know that's not long, but we only talked in person twice. i really want us to talk more, cuz he's super nice and stuff, and he always says really nice stuff, but im not sure what to do. Is it bad that we dont talk? Like i said its only been about 2 or 3 weeks so it's not like its a really close relationship? He can be shy, and so can i. he talks to other girl more than me tho. is this bad? and how can i fix it i need ideas on what to say or do cuz im shy and we're supposed to hang out tomrrow but i have no idea what to say???Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I think he feels shy around you too. You guys should definitely talk more or else this relationship wouldn't work, I am predicting both of you are still in high school. When you hang out tomorrow, just try to keep things cool and be yourself. You don't want someone to love you for who you aren't. Make him laugh and keep the conversation going, and ask about him and what he likes to do. In the end, just give him a peck on the cheek and wish him goodbye.Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I don't know why this person is your boyfriend if you've only talked in person twice. Maybe you should just try dating for a while before moving into a commited relationship. The only think I can tell you is to be yourself, trust your instincts, and watch his actions because they will speak louder than his words. If a relationship doesn't work, then it just doesn't work and there will be others. Good luck!
Just let him hit it. That will break the ice dear.
yeahh u can hang out and u both dont be posseseive about each other.no its not bad that he talks with other girls and all.
umm, calling someone your boyfriend is just a title. talking to him face to face doesnt really make him your boyfriend
juss make out the whole time...
Uhm, why would you get together if you rarely talk. Couples who do that rarely stay together. Since he talks to more girls other than you, he might not be that faithful, since you have limited time together. Its kinda risky not to talk to him.


One thing i can suggest to you, coz i was in the same situation, is to say hi first. if he just smiles, make a joke or something.(like if he'll ever talk to you or do you have to keep blabbing) then once he starts to loosen up, engage in friendly conversations about each other's day and stuff. If you still can't talk. Something's wrong.
Dont worry just talk like you talk to any of your other friends.





';What did you do today?';





';What do you like about school?';





';Have you always lived in this area?';





';When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?';





';Who is your hero?';





';What's the best thing that happened to you today?';





';What kind of books do you like to read?';





';What are your favorite classes in school?';





';Tell me about your family.';





';Can you cook?';





';Do you like drama?';





';Have you ever done improvisational theater?';





If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?





If you could have any job in the world, what would you do?





Of what are you most proud in your life?





Do you play any musical instruments?





What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?





If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?





What do you do when you want to celebrate something?





Where's the most interesting place you've ever traveled?





Do you like risks, or do you avoid them?





What major risks have you taken in your life?





What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?





What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?





What are the most important aspects of your life?





What's the most embarassing thing you've ever done?





i mean really you can talk about just anything!!!

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I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHEN A GIRL NEEDS TIME?

So me and my girlfriend of 4 yaers had an argument about her upcoming birthday. She misunderstood what i was trying to say and thought that i didnt wanna come down for her birthday if she was to go out and party. What i told her was that i wouldnt wanan go out but instead spend time with her alone and she misunderstood that.





Well this brought up the fact that i never call her back when she hangs up when shes mad at me, but i only do that because i wanna let her cool down before we talk again. She also feels that i only tend to apologize when she starts crying but its not true at all. She gave me the cold shoulder and i dont care attitude for about 5 days until i came down to surprise her for her birthday.





She wasnt extremely happy like she always is when i see her but she wasnt mad that i was there either, but i could tell that the argument was still bugging her. Near the end of the night befor ei left she told me she needed time to clear her mind and really think about what she really wants because she doesnt want a future where there is constant arguing. She said she would call me back when her mind is clear and tell me of her decision. I love her to death and i know she loves me so much as well.





Do you think she can throw away 4 years like that over something i know we both can get trhough and overcome? She left me before and it was my fault but we got back together and were never happeier. I admit that we have been arguing quite more recently but what relationship doesnt have problems right? would a girl really leave their bf for something like this and throw away everything?? I need some advice.





I know shes at the point in her life where she has to think about her future. I know shes thinking if whether she can spend the rest of her life with me and if these arguments will probably arise again. We tend to argue about the smallest things and sometimes the small arguments explode into bigger ones. I also know that she has a ton of stress right now due to her business and that she might have to sell her share due to some complications with her partner and i know our situation isnt helping her at all.








But i also know that we love each other with all of our hearts, weve been through so much, and i feel that something liek this is nothing we cant overcome...





and i also know that all of our good times is soooo much better than the bad..I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHEN A GIRL NEEDS TIME?
Leave her a meesage on her phone. Just shut and do it. She doesn't want to talk to you means almost the opposite. Girls are wierd, I know. Try and help out her business too. I know it sounds crazy, but if she is crazy mad, than doesn't that mean you need to do something crazy to fix it?I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHEN A GIRL NEEDS TIME?
If a relationship didn't have problems, then its not love. Everyone has problems. I'm pretty sure you guys will overcome it. Instead of giving her time, maybe you should call her and tell her to let you talk for a minute or so, so that you can explain everything you basically said here.


Every girl likes an honest guy.. and I'm pretty sure that you guys will realize that the smallest things when you argue shouldn't matter.


If she loves you, she'll call you. Just think of ways you can make the relationship better.. Don't rush things, and next time when she does hang up, call her back. :]


It makes the girl feel important, even if it seems like a small thing.


If you need more advice, just email me or something.





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i think you should give her the time and then when she calls back talk to her about what you meant about the b-day thing and then tell her that you will apolgize more often and do the other important stuff too.

PLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?

I met this girl about 3 days ago. There were plenty of seats open, and she chose to sit right behind me. I have a class with her. We talked for a couple minutes before class. Then we talked for a minute after class. NOW, today she sat down beside me, and I said ';Hi _____';, and she smiled big, waved and said hi back to me. After class, I asked her why she chose our certain school to go to. She answered back, and we continued our conversation as we headed out the door into the hallway. I asked her another question, and she laughed (with me) and she was smiling at me. Then I said ';I'll see you later';, her eyes got big and she had a cute and big smile on her face and said ';Okay, I'll see you!';


My intuition is telling me that she probably likes me, but she is REALLY SHY. Is it too early to tell if she likes me? When should I ask her out? Is there a way I can find out if she does like me? BTW, I think she may have a pretty good hint that I like her. Advice pleasePLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?
Ask her to help you with a homework problem after class or on a Saturday. Tell her you need her help! Easy to ask! If she says no it's not like you asked her out or anything.PLEASE HELP **Need advice on a SHY GIRL**- She is hard to read...?
she likes you.... trust me
Why don't you just ask her to go for a coke or coffee. Sit and talk and get to know each other. It doesn't have to be on 'like' level yet, just acquaintance. Give it a few weeks and see if everything is going smooth, then simply ask if she would like to go out sometime. If she says yes, ask her when she's free. If she says no, say OK, no problem, and keep doing what you're doing now. But___ let her make the next move, in regard to a date. She may just want friends and do things in a group for awhile. Her folks may have some rules. You never know what's behind a person's actions. Take it slow.
Go for it! I think she really likes you but like you said shes shy and if you don't make the first move she probably won't do anything either!
Ask her out now!
she might be being shy cuz she does like u and all u can do is ask her!! the worst that could happen is she says no!! and not askin and regrettin it for a long time is only goin to make it harder to be around her
I think that she does like you, if she didn't she wouldn't show intereste in you like she is, she would probably ignore you if she didn't. I think you should find out what she likes to do and then ask her out on a date. If she likes you shall say no.You will no the answer
Jump on it Duder...what the hell do you really have to lose.. if she is shy she wont tell anyone about it...
all you need to read is 36 24 36
she probably does like u but dont rush things take it slow but still stay interested
Well... I personally think, that you should spend more time with her, so that then she can be herself. I bet you if she was going to be herself with you, she wouldn't be shy. You just have to accept her for who she is. If you walk around your school together, just talking about random stuff, she will be very happy, that there's someone who likes her, and I'm sure that she likes you too ;]
If you rush things it won't go smoothly so take things slowly it's obvious she wants to be friends so maybe you can try just being that guy friend that every girl appreciates. But try not to be around her alot cause then she won't have a chance to miss you if u understand ';absence makes the heart grow fonder';. Maybe you can ask her if she wants to study together for the class you take together.So for now don't rush things patience is a virtue so have some and anyways it's not like she's going anywhere.


And again don't rush things i know what i'm saying it just messes things up.
yea, she likes you, don't ask her out quite yet, though keep talking to her for a couple more days then ask her if she'd like to go do something like, go out to eat somewhere.
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YES she likes you! If she's sitting next to you now and talking with you then she finds you nice and easy to talk to, and thats always a good thing. I would continue to be friendly with her, then after class is over and your walking together ask her out....i doubt she will say ';no'; if she is continueing to show interest in you. :D
She probably likes you; attempt to get to know her better and then ask her out.
I was once one of those shy girls and met a guy like you in class and I really wanted him to ask me out, he did but I hung onto the car do like he was some kind of a serial killer! If she is as shy as I was its going to take a few dates for her to ease up and get comfortable with you. Try walking her to her classes first they see if you can have lunch at her table next after a couple of weeks and you see that's she's more relaxed around you then try asking her out but for heavens sake if your going to try to make a move on her a simple kiss and leave it at that for a time. I'm pretty sure she knows you've got your eye on her but just take it slow. Good luck.
Well, Im kind of a shy girl so I can tell you. She probably just thinks you're cute or would make a good friend, so she wants to stay by you. Just keep talking to her, sitting by her, walking with her, and she'll finally open up to you. If she keeps showing signs that she likes you, then you make first move, b/c if she's shy, she wont do it. But if she's just looking for someone to talk to, then be that someone and soon it would probably lead to something more.
well maybe you like her but if shes shy maybe shes just talking to you





if yer cute then maybe its YES
i think she does like you but maybe you can ask her friend if she likes someone
Well get to know her at school just a tad more then ask her ro go on a date with you like bowling or putt putting then see how things go from there if it is all good then ask her out.
I say go for it. Ask her to a movie for this coming Sunday or something so it's not too far in advance but it's soon enough to give you both something to look forward to. :) If she's not interested you have the whole weekend to come to terms with that, but if she is (which it sounds like it is) you're off to a good start and come Monday you two will have a whole lot more to talk about. :)





good luck!!
If you think she likes you continuing talking to her. Be her friend then see where it goes from their.

PLEASE HELP, need advice asap about this girl?

I got this girls number one night at a party. i made out with her and felt up on her. anyway, i am unsure if it was just a drunken night thing or what. so i was just too nervous to call because i didnt want to get turned down and feel like a fool, so i texted her. i texted her yesterday and she responded. but today i was going to call, instead i texted her again. she didnt respond. im not giong to call tonight, but should i try and call her sometime, or is it too late for that.PLEASE HELP, need advice asap about this girl?
AWWW,,, ok first thing,,,





DON'T GET DRUNK ITS BAD!!!!








second,, were did u meet her? ,, at the party yes,, but did you see her anywhere before,, or after that?





third,,, call her,,, IF YOU KNOW HER NAME,,





i mean text whatever,, what did she say the first time,, try to tell her,, if she says eww,, and that she was drunk,, THERE ARE ALOT OF FISH IN THE SEA JUST GO FISHING AGAIN!!





jeez,, i know i would feel bad for you,, but yea








hope i helpedPLEASE HELP, need advice asap about this girl?
If you're going to do anything, call.





Girls hate a guy who is too cowardly to call and only texts. Next! The worst that can happen is that she rejects you. So what? It's the same thing if she doesn't respond to any more of your texts and you never hear from her again.





--%26gt; In response to your additional details: NOPE. A girl who values herself is not going to respond if all you keep sending her is texts. Grow some, and CALL.
Allways worth a try, but as far as a text, I think it would be best to call her next time and see how she reacts, nothing to lose and everything to gain.





Hope that is of some help.





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its time to let her come to you, you already did the work and showed her that you were still interested


its all up to her now.


if she doesnt call/text she obviously doesnt want anything to happen between you two
ur right about that if she responded to u the first time. I suggest u call her in a day or two. I'm sure she'll pick up and dude the next time picka better time to make out with sumone ..u know when ur sober.
Give her a call she didn't tell you not to call so give it a try
call her


texting is too impersonal


if she turns yuo down


youlle live. right?
not to be mean but grow some balls man!!! if u cant even call her then u shouldnt deserve her. have some confidence...so she rejects u...oh well there is more girls out there. just call
no give her a call.
Call her and see where it goes to another date or a dump its ok we all get dumped sometimes and you had fun with her one time so be grateful for that :)
just call her


and see where it goes


if ur rejected oh well


that's life and


at least u wont wast ur time with her!
u should call her